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I feel like I can't catch a break!

singingirl96singingirl96 member
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Hi Ladies... I haven't posted on here too much... Both DH and I have been struggling with severe IF for 7 years.  We were finally successful after IVF/ICSI with donor sperm and we're so very happy, however I feel like I can't catch a break.

Although our baby is doing well it has been found that he has two heart defects and he may struggle with heart problems throughout his life.  Tomorrow I go for yet another ultrasound to try to find out the extent of the heart defect... I'm feeling defeated. 

Yes, I'm thrilled and overjoyed to be a mom soon, I just wish I didn't have to deal with this too!  

Me: 36 (Endo) DH: 39 (Azoo)
5 DIUI - BFN
IVF#1 - BFP - AJ 7/12
FET#1 - BFP Due 7/24/14
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Re: I feel like I can't catch a break!

  • mdluv21mdluv21
    This is a post for pregnant after infertility.  Good luck to you and your son.
    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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  • MelicakesMelicakes member

    Sorry about your son but this board is for women who are still fighting Infertilty ,

    your post would be better answered  on Pregnant after IF or Success after IF

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  • thewormstheworms member

    hi cutie -

    i'm sorry you're baby boy has to deal with so much and you too.  you're both in my T&P.

    ((HUGS))

    head over to Success or Pregnant after IF. 

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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