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2nd beta in...its over for me

nolachick11nolachick11 member
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I went this morning to get my beta again.  It went from a 9 (on Friday) to a 3.3 today.  Those were our only frosties left that we transferred so we are officially done.  I'm so thankful for my twins but I'm also sad that I won't have any more children:( If that makes sense.   Thanks for your support ladies as always.
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  • MBandBudMBandBud member
    I am so very sorry for this.  It sucks when it doesn't work; it stings when it does and then doesn't.  Hang in there and hug those twins extra tight.  Hang in there. 
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  • pandabearloverpandabearlover
    Hugs, I know the feeling. 
    Momma to 2 sweet girls here on earth and a precious baby boy in heaven
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    Oh sweetie...i'm so sorry :(  ((((((HUGS)))))
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  • MAK06MAK06 member
    I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss.  Sending big ((( HUGS ))) your way.  Life is definitely not fair!  I hope you find peace with where you are at.

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  • itsmevkbitsmevkb member
    Of course that makes sense.  I'm so sorry for your loss, both immediate and the future of having more children.  Big hugs.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • Cajunladybug22Cajunladybug22
    :(  So sorry the decision has to be made like this.  ((HUGS))
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  • njdcgirlnjdcgirl member
    Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this. Huge ((hugs)) to you. Of course you can be simultaneously grateful for your twins and mourn this loss too.  IF sucks. 
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  • dana316dana316 member

    I am so so sorry.

    (((Hugs)))

     

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  • babystinkbreathbabystinkbreath member
    i'm so sorry sweetie.  big hugs.

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  • MelicakesMelicakes member

    imageitsmevkb:
    Of course that makes sense.  I'm so sorry for your loss, both immediate and the future of having more children.  Big hugs.

     

    100% all of the above... Big Hugs to you Hun

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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member

    I am so very sorry.


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    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

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  • perry7285perry7285 member
    i'm so sorry sweetie. sending lots of hugs.
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  • GreenEyedGalGreenEyedGal member
    Crap. I'm so very sorry.
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  • KYRNKYRN
    I'm so sorry.  It sucks that IF has to determine our family size.
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  • sherryberry2sherryberry2
    I am so sorry. 
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  • preheatedovenpreheatedoven member

    I'm so sorry:( 

    And as thankful as your are for your two, I'm sure it still hurts just as bad. ((HUGS)) 

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  • AimeeL85AimeeL85 member
    I am so sorry, for your loss and for the finality you are feeling now. I am sure there will be a mourning process and am thankful you have your beautiful twins to help you through that. (((hugs)))
    DS (7 years old) from FET in 2010
    DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
    TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
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  • nolachick11nolachick11 member
    Thanks ladies for your support and kind words.  
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  • Marc's Mrs.Marc's Mrs. member
    I'm so sorry.  It makes perfect sense that you'd be sad.  (((HUGS)))
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  • gringa78gringa78
    I'm so sorry.  IF sucks.
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