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An unexpected (bad turn) in our match...

Birth mom had baby girl this past Wednesday and we were lucky to spend a lot of time with them Thurs and Fri. There were 2 potential birth dads so we had to wait out paternity before we got to bring baby girl home. Well, got an unexpected call this morning that birthDAD is going to parent. We're shocked and sad but so very thankful God has plan for our lives. Our nursery is done and waiting for a new little one. Thank goodness I kept tags on all the girlie loot. This journey is SO HARD at times.
Declan 8.25.08
Lincoln 3.18.11
Brooks 7.7.12



Re: An unexpected (bad turn) in our match...

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    I am so very sorry!!
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    So sorry. That is so hard. You are in my prayers.
    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
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    I am SO sorry.  I can imagine the shock and sadness that you mentioned...I hope each day things get a little better.

    Many hugs. 

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    I'm so sorry
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    My heart is breaking for you.  Keep the faith, something great will come soon.
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    I'm so sorry :(

    TTC since May 2006. After 3 failed Clomid cycles, 2 failed Injectibles/IUIs, 2 failed IVFs and 1 failed FET, we moved on to adoption! 

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    Last ditch FET resulted in BFP, and identical twin girls!

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    So sorry sweetie.  Sounds like you have a good perspective, I think that is the first step!
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    I am so sorry. :-( I hope your little one finds you soon!
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    I'm so very sorry. Be gentle with yourself and take some time to grieve
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    ((hugs)) I'm so sorry. 
    Trying to grow our family with both fertility treatments and adoption since March 2009 
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    So sorry.  Praying for you.

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    I'm so sorry :(  Even feeling strongly that there is a plan for you, I'm sure it's still difficult.  ((HUGS))
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    I'm so sorry :( Hope your little one finds you soon! {{HUGS}}
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    So sorry for your loss.  Keep the faith that you will get your baby! :)
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    Gosh I'm so sorry. I hope your wait for your forever child is a short one. 
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