Late Term and Child Loss

I'm still so pissed....

I was out running errands on Friday so I decided to stop by the cemetery to see Corbin and also see if they had attached the vase to his crypt (he's in a mausoleum).  I was also going to pick up his Easter basket.  When I got there, there was still no vase and the Easter basket was gone.  I went to the cemetery office and they told me that the basket was thrown away.  They told me that after a week from any major holiday, anything not attached to stones is thrown away.  I would have hung it from the vase had it been there (which it's still not after 4 months).  I keep trying to tell myself that Corbin came and took it to heaven with him but I'm still just so peeved that they threw it away.  The basket had the cutest stuffed monkey I'd ever seen.  I was hoping to put it in his room.  Granted, it didn't cost me anything because my friend gave it to me after she heard what I was going to do with it, but I'm just so pissed that they threw it away because they failed to put up the vase.  I gave them an earful.  That was the first gift I'd ever bought for my son and it's gone.  I cried the entire way home. Sorry, just needed to vent.

 

In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always Now and Forever My baby you'll be

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Re: I'm still so pissed....

  • Oh, I'm sorry. I would be upset too. (((HUGS)))
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  • We had the same problem and was told it was thrown away. Here's actually what they do, back at the end of the cemetery there is a shed with the machines they used to dig the graves. They have a spot of all the "stuff" they pick up. It's a little dirt road behind one of the churches. Check back there because I did see some Easter baskets when we went to pick up our Easter eggs.
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  • Ugh!  The same thing happened to us today. All of Avery's stuff was thrown out!  She doesn't even have a headstone yet, so it is just an empty patch of grass :(. I will get her some more stuff this week. I can't stand that there is nothing out there to mark her spot. 



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  • I'm sorry that happened. My LO is in a small cemetary in the country so there are not very many restrictions. Hopefully you can get the vases put on soon. Big ((hugs))
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  • Im so sorry they did that to you. Id be so mad as well. Huge hugs..
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  • I'm so mad for you too! I understand that there must be a time limit to pick things up like that, but they should tell you ahead of time. It seems so wrong to throw away a baby's Easter basket. I'm sorry:(
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    :-(  I am so, so sorry! I am angry and heartbroken too!  Huge, huge (((hugs)))!!
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