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LaBellaVida

Hello, I am new to the bump, and wanted to come and introduce myself. My name is Brandi I am 27 years old I have been married for almost 8 years to my husband Seth. He is in the ARMY and we are currently stationed in Texas. I have a son from a previous relationship his name is Andrew, and my husband and I have a son together and his name is Connor. We have two dogs Molly (beagle) and Lexi (maltese/yorki) we also have a cat (Dexter....or Meow.) My husband and I have been TTC since August 2011 with baby #3. We finally got pregnant a few weeks ago for the first time since TTC baby #3. We are very saddend to say that we are currently in the process of a miscarriage. What brought me to the bump was I was online doing research of why, and how miscarriages happen, and also looking up biblical verses and poems to help me greive the loss of this much wanted baby. I came across a posting on this website, and decided what the heck..let me become part of this community and see what its all about. I am so glad I did because I am comforted by the stories of other woman and their struggles, and losses of their babies, and it reasures me that I am not alone....even when I feel alone in this world right now. I have friends, and my family, and they are trying to support me the best way they can, or know how, but until you have actually gone through with it, noone really understands the pain that is caused when you loose a pregnancy. I know they mean well with their words, and the way they try and support, but sometimes what they say just isn't the right thing to say to someone who is in so much pain in their heart. Coming here and reading other peoples experiences allows me to know that I am not alone...and these feelings of being sad, and mad at the world are okay to feel.