Late Term and Child Loss

Reading blogs

I'm on Spring break, it's a beautiful day outside and I've been sitting on the couch for 3 hours reading blogs of loss moms and crying my eyes out. I also did this last night for hours while DH was at work. I can't believe this is our life. I am so thankful to those of you who write blogs because at least when I read them I don't feel so alone. Thank you for letting me know that I'm normal for still feeling this devastated 4 months later. I wish I could make every friend, family member, and stranger who I come in contact with read these blogs so they can understand what we are going through. Sending hugs out to all of you today. Hope you are having an okay Wednesday.
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IVF #1 BFP b/g twins!; loss at 23 weeks due to I.C. and PTL. IVF #2 BFP 5/26/12; due date 2/6/13; TAC surgery 7/20/12, blessed with another girl & boy! 

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Re: Reading blogs

  • I'm sorry you are having a difficult day. It is helpful to know that we are not alone, though I hate than anyone has to be where we are.


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  • Sorry you are having a rough day. I like to read other loss mommies blogs too. It seems therapeutic to have a good cry. 

    A blog I read while going through IVF was "Maybe if you just relax". She has dealt with infertility, twin pregnancy, loss of twin, surviving twin unable to leave hospital and new pg. She has a good sense of humor and I enjoy rooting for her.  

    Hope your day turns around. Big hugs.  

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  • *hugs*  Lovey, I still feel devestated somedays a year and a half later!  You're are definitely not alone and I too find the blogs to be helpful, comforting.  I blog for my own free therapy, and I read other blogs to feel less alone. 

    More *hugs*!!!!

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  • I did the same thing last night. I searched the internet trying to find someone who was feeling what I was, experiencing similar issues...so I don't feel so...alone. I realize there are so many of "us" out there who don't talk about it because it's too difficult to find the words and express exactly how it feels to go through what we have. I admire those who can find those words...because it gives me hope.
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  • During the first few months reading blogs was my lifeline. I still have days when I need to know I am not alone and go back to reading blogs and books. ((hugs))
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  • I read lots of blogs right after my loss. It helped me see that I wasn't alone. Hugs to you!
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  • imageblessedhope:
    During the first few months reading blogs was my lifeline. I still have days when I need to know I am not alone and go back to reading blogs and books. ((hugs))

    This!

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  • Thanks for the suggestion eroplane. I will definitely check out that blog.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    IVF #1 BFP b/g twins!; loss at 23 weeks due to I.C. and PTL. IVF #2 BFP 5/26/12; due date 2/6/13; TAC surgery 7/20/12, blessed with another girl & boy! 

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