....And that is why a lot of people don't tell their families the name of the baby until it is officially her name. I like the name, but even if I didn't like it I would still encourage you to use it because YOU and (I'm assuming) the babies dad decided on the name.
If you love it, use it. No name will EVER be perfect for everyone.
I think Nola is cute and very unique! It is what my DS calls a granola bar though. I also really love Nora. Everyone is going to have an opinion on the name, so you just have to go with what you love. Everyone else will come around.
....And that is why a lot of people don't tell their families the name of the baby until it is officially her name. I like the name, but even if I didn't like it I would still encourage you to use it because YOU and (I'm assuming) the babies dad decided on the name.
If you love it, use it. No name will EVER be perfect for everyone.
I totally agree!!! I'm sure some people will not like the names me and my H have chosen, but we love them so thats all that matters. If you and your H are happy with the name, then go for it. Others will always have their own suggestions on whats better.
But if you were my sister or someone, I would never say that to anyone IRL or to your face if that was your baby name. Once I met my neice, I am sure I would learn to love it.
As in New Orleans?? NMS but if you love it you should use it as I am just an internet stranger.
However, this is exactly why we don't share names with our families before the baby is born. No matter what you name your LO, your family will like it more once it is attached to a beautiful little baby
NMS, but if you like it...go with it. Once the baby is here, I don't think your family will care that much about the name anyways.
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Love Nola! I have heard it before used as a pet name [term of endearment, not an actual animal] and just assumed it was an Irish/Scottish variant of 'sweetie', etc.
I think its very cute! If your family doesn't like it, they can go suck eggs!
....And that is why a lot of people don't tell their families the name of the baby until it is officially her name. I like the name, but even if I didn't like it I would still encourage you to use it because YOU and (I'm assuming) the babies dad decided on the name.
If you love it, use it. No name will EVER be perfect for everyone.
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ETA: I'd never heard of the New Orleans connection before.
It's more of a nn to me, but I like it. I do think of New Orleans, but eh... that doesn't really bug me either.
As for your family not liking the name?it's not their kid. I made the mistake of telling some of my family a few of our name ideas and they weren't what I would call enthusiastic. It bugged me for about a day or two and then I snapped out of it. Be confident in your name if you love it. They'll come around.
I really like Nola, especially as nickname for Magnolia!
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bahah thanks guys I actually got a good laugh from the replies. It's not a set name, I just wanted opinions from ppl who don't know me cause when I ask friends they say what they think I wanna hear. It's actually not having to do with New Orleans at all, since I'm canadian but now that you guys say it, I can kinda see it.
Love it! I gave it to my cat in 2003 and never heard of it as a shortened form of New Orleans until after Hurricane Katrina. I'm surprised it's so fresh in everyone's minds. I live a few hours outside of Washington DC. We call the northern VA metropolitan area NOVA, which is also a legit name but I wouldn't immediately think of it. Come on, if people all over the place can name their kids Brooklyn, London and Paris and people don't harp all over those actual city names than I think people need to get over this association.
Also, my cat's full name is Finnoula, so that's an option.
bahah thanks guys I actually got a good laugh from the replies. It's not a set name, I just wanted opinions from ppl who don't know me cause when I ask friends they say what they think I wanna hear. It's actually not having to do with New Orleans at all, since I'm canadian but now that you guys say it, I can kinda see it.
I don't make the connection and most people here won't. I grew up with a Nola, and will always have positive associations because of her.
I like the name Nola. It would be on my list but I am from Louisiana so it's a little too close to home. I've actually written NO, LA on a letter.
I do think it sounds more like a nn though and would suggest a fn like Finnola.
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Re: my family hates the name...
I love Nola!! If you like it, go for it! It's a cute name.
....And that is why a lot of people don't tell their families the name of the baby until it is officially her name. I like the name, but even if I didn't like it I would still encourage you to use it because YOU and (I'm assuming) the babies dad decided on the name.
If you love it, use it. No name will EVER be perfect for everyone.
It makes me think of the Enola Gay. Not a good association in my mind.
This exactly.
I totally agree!!! I'm sure some people will not like the names me and my H have chosen, but we love them so thats all that matters. If you and your H are happy with the name, then go for it. Others will always have their own suggestions on whats better.
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I do not like that either.
But if you were my sister or someone, I would never say that to anyone IRL or to your face if that was your baby name. Once I met my neice, I am sure I would learn to love it.
As in New Orleans?? NMS but if you love it you should use it as I am just an internet stranger.
However, this is exactly why we don't share names with our families before the baby is born. No matter what you name your LO, your family will like it more once it is attached to a beautiful little baby
I don't like the New Orleans connection but do think it's pretty aside from that.
I think it would be a sweet nn for Magnolia.
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Only shot is IVF (ICSI)
5/31/2012 - HSG: all clear
6/22/2012 - appt with RE, confirmed ICSI is necessary.
8/3/2012 - First IVF Monitoring Appointment
8/17/2012 - Egg Retrieval (retrieved 23 eggs, 3 made it to freezer)
8/18/2012 - OHSS - hospitalized, need to wait one cycle to transfer embryo(s) due to OHSS
8/29/2012 - begin meds for frozen cycle
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10/26/2012 - Beta #2: 947
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2/6/2013 - A/S looked perfect. Still team green by choice!
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Love Nola!
I have heard it before used as a pet name [term of endearment, not an actual animal] and just assumed it was an Irish/Scottish variant of 'sweetie', etc.
I think its very cute!
If your family doesn't like it, they can go suck eggs!
All this.
ETA: I'd never heard of the New Orleans connection before.
It's more of a nn to me, but I like it. I do think of New Orleans, but eh... that doesn't really bug me either.
As for your family not liking the name?it's not their kid. I made the mistake of telling some of my family a few of our name ideas and they weren't what I would call enthusiastic. It bugged me for about a day or two and then I snapped out of it. Be confident in your name if you love it. They'll come around.
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Love it! I gave it to my cat in 2003 and never heard of it as a shortened form of New Orleans until after Hurricane Katrina. I'm surprised it's so fresh in everyone's minds. I live a few hours outside of Washington DC. We call the northern VA metropolitan area NOVA, which is also a legit name but I wouldn't immediately think of it. Come on, if people all over the place can name their kids Brooklyn, London and Paris and people don't harp all over those actual city names than I think people need to get over this association.
Also, my cat's full name is Finnoula, so that's an option.
I don't make the connection and most people here won't. I grew up with a Nola, and will always have positive associations because of her.
I like the name Nola. It would be on my list but I am from Louisiana so it's a little too close to home. I've actually written NO, LA on a letter.
I do think it sounds more like a nn though and would suggest a fn like Finnola.
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