DH and I have decided to go with hyphenating LO's last name for now. After we choose a first and middle name we'll decide what order to put the last names. We agree that it is the decision we're most comfortable with, but we're just going to see how it works out. We have a couple years after the kid is born to change it before he'd even know anyway!
ETA: clarity
Re: F/U to last name indecision