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cyndi72

I had my u/s this morning at 9w6d and it showed the baby died at 8w6d. There was no heartbeat. My husband and I are devastated. This was our first attempt with IVF/ICSI. I will go in next week for my D&C. I've heard that letting your body miscarry naturally can be horrifying. This has been so hard and painful, we've been crying all day and my face hurts. We are just so heartbroken and can't even think about trying again soon.

klbowie

I am so sorry for your loss and sorry you are here.  It is super hard and painful but I have been told it gets easier.  I am sending thoughts and prayers your way. 

zzyyxx

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

heather4hawks

So sorry for your loss. No one wants to join this group but I have found it is very helpful and supportive. Do what you can and don't worry about trying again yet. It is over a month since my loss and I am finally starting to consider when we will TTC again. Take as much time as you need.

JennyP0222

I am truly sorry for your loss. The pain of dealing with a MC is immeasurable and no one should go through this. All I can say is feel what you need to feel. Do what you need to do. Cry when you need to cry. Say what you need to say. The end of this tunnel seems far now but every day it does get a little bit easier. Best wishes you to you and your husband.