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Good Thing or Bad
So since we went to court on March 26th, my ex sent me a text telling me what I was and wasn't going to do and that I wasn't going to keep him from seeing his son (all because I said I didn't trust him to take him anywhere right now when he asked to take him for a few hours). Of course I set that straight.
He said he was going to pay me CS (not court ordered). Well I meet him that Thursday so he could visit and no money. He said he would have it Tuesday. That has been over a week ago. He has had no contact with me what so ever. Not even a simple how is he doing.
I don't know whether to think 'hey this could be good' or 'he has got something up his sleeve'. What is yalls opinion?
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Re: Good Thing or Bad
It's never a good thing when the NCP falls off the radar. He may have been instructed by his lawyer to not contact you anymore, or he may be trying to pull a disappearing act.
Two things I'd like to address: Not allowing him to see your (plural) son. I understand completely about not wanting to allow him alone with your son. However, can you set up a supervised visit? It's important they get time together. It's also important the two of you learn to coparent. This is vital to your son.
Second: He said he WAS or WAS NOT going to pay child support? IDK where you're at, but here, the only way CS is accepted is if the father pays the state. Anything else is considered "gifts" and is not taken as a CS payment. That's more for his benefit than yours.
Are ya'll going through a child support case right now? Glad you do let him see him. That's something a LOT of women don't do. Good job.
Wait, what? That doesn't make any sense. Without a court order your ex is not required to pay you anything.