Rough day

scout426

After the oop hearing yesterday I really needed an easy day today.  No such luck.  I got a bunch of calls at work from his family worried about my safety. Stbxh got kicked out Sunday bc of delusions and craziness in which they felt someone else's life was endangered. Then they found drugs in his room.  None of which was important to tell me until after they thought I didn't get an oop!  I didn't but I did get a restraining order.  They thought he wascheating my way today since he has nothing now.  I had to have the sitter leave our house and go to a family friends to hide all day. Not what I needed on a busy day. His family abandoned my dd and me. And now they want to know if there is anything she is in need of and if I'm ok. I fear for my life on a daily basis and now they care.  Yet they didn't show up to court to tell the judge that in general he's a danger to everyone!  Dear Karma where are you?   

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scout426

beccaga16:

Is there anyway they can file a police report? Go to the local station and tell them that he is unstable and may pose a threat?

I would contact your attorney and see if they will give official statements. 

The police were involved.  They found drugs in his room.  There is no report for me to get.  The family decided not to press charges or file a report.  As helpful as they thought they were being they really aren't helping.  Because I was just in court on Monday my lawyer said all we can do for the time being is document, document, document.  It's pretty sad that my lawyer felt that she also should make her office, friends, and neighbors aware that he may come after her.  I cannot have him committed into a mental health facility anymore because I have decided to divorce.  So it's up to his family members to contact the state to have him recommitted, where he needs to be.  They aren't going to do it.  They said they are done with him.