not enough?...(preg. ment.)

blessedhope

Sorry to keep writing posts tonight.

DH and I stopped by his brothers house to borrow some tools. I asked his wife how she was doing. She couldn't just respond with a normal, "good and you?" Her answer was, "pregnant." This is her 6th pregnancy. She lost her last baby so even though I was jealous she gets pregnant so fast I was happy for her. I did get mad when I started to blab about using ovulation predictors. I don't know why I even started talking about my private stuff and set my self up to get hurt. She alluded that we probably aren't having sex enough. She said she didn't need a opk because  her and her DH have been together too much not to get pregnant.

I didn't arguing with her but I wanted to say something along the lines of, "We have been humping it out enough to put rabbits to shame!"

ignorant people make me mad.....  

kiki4

I'm sorry sweetie...((hugs))

EKGibs

ugh. I'm happy for her for getting pg again but really? not having sex enough? some people just dont have a clue

smcjmk09

blessedhope:

Sorry to keep writing posts tonight.

DH and I stopped by his brothers house to borrow some tools. I asked his wife how she was doing. She couldn't just respond with a normal, "good and you?" Her answer was, "pregnant." This is her 6th pregnancy. She lost her last baby so even though I was jealous she gets pregnant so fast I was happy for her. I did get mad when I started to blab about using ovulation predictors. I don't know why I even started talking about my private stuff and set my self up to get hurt. She alluded that we probably aren't having sex enough. She said she didn't need a opk because  her and her DH have been together too much not to get pregnant.

I didn't arguing with her but I wanted to say something along the lines of, "We have been humping it out enough to put rabbits to shame!"

ignorant people make me mad.....  

 me too!  A few months ago, I had a neighbor, actually a gay, male neighbor, tell me I needed to relax and then I would get pregnant.  LOL... your SIL and my neighbor should get together and party ;-)    Seriously though, I'm sorry you had to deal with her crappy comments.

OO cupcakes OO

I think it's hard for some people to put themselves in someone else's shoes.  And that whole thinking before you speak seems to be an issue....

I tend to get pg pretty quickly, but it's not bc I'm some master of conception and I'm better at baby making than everyone else.  (I actually think DH has mutant sperm.)  It's just reality that some conceive easily while others struggle, but implying that she's better at it than you or that you're doing it wrong is b!tchy whether she meant it to be or not.  Maybe she just got lucky....

Continue to hump it out.  Hopefully you'll get a BFP soon and won't have to deal with her conception superiority complex.  :::eye roll:::

kat530_528

Geez I'm sorry you had to endure that.  What a dumb@$$ really!  This sounds no better than my "best" fried who told me that either we aren't having enough sex or that there is something wrong with my husband's swimmers.  WTH?!  Some people need to STFU!

HopingforChange

Some people should just not be allowed to speak candidly...  I am sorry.  Unsolicited, ignorant advice is high on my list of triggers.  I hope tomorrow is a better day for you, BlessedHope.

KacyChicago

smcjmk09:

blessedhope:

Sorry to keep writing posts tonight.

DH and I stopped by his brothers house to borrow some tools. I asked his wife how she was doing. She couldn't just respond with a normal, "good and you?" Her answer was, "pregnant." This is her 6th pregnancy. She lost her last baby so even though I was jealous she gets pregnant so fast I was happy for her. I did get mad when I started to blab about using ovulation predictors. I don't know why I even started talking about my private stuff and set my self up to get hurt. She alluded that we probably aren't having sex enough. She said she didn't need a opk because  her and her DH have been together too much not to get pregnant.

I didn't arguing with her but I wanted to say something along the lines of, "We have been humping it out enough to put rabbits to shame!"

ignorant people make me mad.....  

 me too!  A few months ago, I had a neighbor, actually a gay, male neighbor, tell me I needed to relax and then I would get pregnant.  LOL... your SIL and my neighbor should get together and party ;-)    Seriously though, I'm sorry you had to deal with her crappy comments.

I'm sorry to you both ... I hate that people can be as insensitive as they are sometimes. And I hate how they have all the answers for you and getting pregnant. I've had people tell me that I shouldn't wait, that we should be trying again ... Yep. Because you know my body, my brain, my heart. Psht.

CCline09

((hugs)). People say the stupidest things and more often then not its the people that are close to us.