Blended Families

Stressful day today!

Today I have to:

- Go to work for an important meeting called at the last minute, and I had to cancel plans that I had with my dc.  :(  hate that.

- File a return certification to the court and my ex-h on his request to reduce child support, that is sure to make him mad because it calls out all his errors on the paperwork/ attempts to reduce his income.

- Write an email to exh pointing out that he is violating our CO by refusing to work with me on scheduling make up parenting time around business travel, and await his angry, long-winded email response.

- Meet with my lawyer after work to work on my next motion, to enforce exh paying work related child care, when all I want to do after work at 8 months pregnant is go home and lay down. 

This is truly a day that must have been given to me to make me stronger... because I feel like I have never had a day this challenging so far!  Hopefully I come out feeling powerful on the other side! 

Re: Stressful day today!

  • imageSigir:

    Today I have to:

    - Go to work for an important meeting called at the last minute, and I had to cancel plans that I had with my dc.  :(  hate that.  Boo.  Here's hoping you get lots accomplished so it's "worth it".

    - File a return certification to the court and my ex-h on his request to reduce child support, that is sure to make him mad because it calls out all his errors on the paperwork/ attempts to reduce his income.  He shouldn't MAKE errors if he dislikes having them pointed out.  Jerk face.

    - Write an email to exh pointing out that he is violating our CO by refusing to work with me on scheduling make up parenting time around business travel, and await his angry, long-winded email response.  His response can wait til tomorrow.  Just because he sits by the computer awaiting his opportunity to make your life miserable, doesn't mean you should do the same.  Write it, send it, then leave it for another day.  Today is busy enough.

    - Meet with my lawyer after work to work on my next motion, to enforce exh paying work related child care, when all I want to do after work at 8 months pregnant is go home and lay down.  Does your lawyer have a comfy couch?  He/She should get one for circumstances like yours.  I'm sure they see it often! 

    This is truly a day that must have been given to me to make me stronger... because I feel like I have never had a day this challenging so far!  Hopefully I come out feeling powerful on the other sideI hope so too!

    Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
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  • imageSigir:

    Today I have to:

    - Go to work for an important meeting called at the last minute, and I had to cancel plans that I had with my dc.  :(  hate that.

    - File a return certification to the court and my ex-h on his request to reduce child support, that is sure to make him mad because it calls out all his errors on the paperwork/ attempts to reduce his income.

    - Write an email to exh pointing out that he is violating our CO by refusing to work with me on scheduling make up parenting time around business travel, and await his angry, long-winded email response.

    - Meet with my lawyer after work to work on my next motion, to enforce exh paying work related child care, when all I want to do after work at 8 months pregnant is go home and lay down. 

    This is truly a day that must have been given to me to make me stronger... because I feel like I have never had a day this challenging so far!  Hopefully I come out feeling powerful on the other side! 

    I'm sorry you're having a rotten Monday!  If it makes you feel better (or giggle at my misfortune), my body just decided to start morning sickness today - at basically 20 weeks - and I got sick while driving.  I'd JUST pulled over and wasn't even yet in park before I lost it.  I spent 45 minutes cleaning puke out of my car.  Happy Monday *sarcasm*!  

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    "To be able to practice five things everywhere under heaven constitutes perfect virtue...gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness, and kindness."
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