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Wowzers!

Happy Easter to everyone (who celebrates) I hope your day was better than mine. I spent almost the entire day being asked by dh's friends family (people who don't even know my name) when we were gonna have a baby and why we don't have a baby.....ummmm if u don't know my name,don't concern yourself with my uterus and what may or may not be growing in there. Geesh! Vent over :(
TTC #1 since 02/2010
Cycle #26
Me (30) DH (29)
Internal Ultrasound 2/8/12: Fibroids
HSG 2/17/12: Tech said Blocked but RE said Clear
DH SA 2/15/12: low sperm count 8 mil, 3/21/12: 1.5 mil
SHG 3/16/12: perfect!
BFP 5/2/12!
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EDD 01/07/13
Beta #1 5/3-1,628
Beta #2 5/7- 5,804

Re: Wowzers!

  • {{HUGS}}
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  • So sorry, I know they mean well and probably think it's their way of making conversation.  I always dread family gtg's b/c there's always that family member who asks when are we going to have a baby.  ugh.  Hugs to you.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • I can relate! (((hugs)))
    dx: MFI 0% morph & low count. Occasional Anovulatory cycles.

    TTC #1
    • IVF #1 4/21/12 - c/p
    • IVF#2 8/1/12 - BFP! DD arrived 4/10/2013.

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    TTC #2
    • FET #1 3/18/14 - BFP! DS arrived 11/19/2014.

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  • I hear ya! (((HUGS))))

    Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
    IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
    IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
    Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
    SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

    Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
     

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  • kmc84kmc84 member
    Nothing like holidays to get the busy bodies busy!! ((hugs))
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    TTC# 1 since 5/10
    Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13

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    TTC #2
    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

    TTC#3
    IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
    IVF #7 August 2019-....?
  • mnj05mnj05 member
    I was asked by my family so many times today, it sucks! Sorry it happened to you!

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    TTC #1 since 3/2011
    DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
    DH is a testicular cancer survivor
    IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
    ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
    Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
    Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
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    TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal

    IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.

    FET #1 10/15/14 - Beta #1: 216  Beta #2: 823


    Baby Boy born 7/10/2015


  • Thanks Ladies! I know they meant well and I knew right when we walked in the door and saw our friends baby that the interrogation was about to begin.  I just need to come up with a better response than Indifferent, DH jumped in each time with a clever response as I sat there speechless.
    TTC #1 since 02/2010
    Cycle #26
    Me (30) DH (29)
    Internal Ultrasound 2/8/12: Fibroids
    HSG 2/17/12: Tech said Blocked but RE said Clear
    DH SA 2/15/12: low sperm count 8 mil, 3/21/12: 1.5 mil
    SHG 3/16/12: perfect!
    BFP 5/2/12!
    imageBabyFruit Ticker
    EDD 01/07/13
    Beta #1 5/3-1,628
    Beta #2 5/7- 5,804
  • imagebout2bemrsG:
    Thanks Ladies! I know they meant well and I knew right when we walked in the door and saw our friends baby that the interrogation was about to begin.  I just need to come up with a better response than Indifferent, DH jumped in each time with a clever response as I sat there speechless.

    Yay for DH coming to the rescue!  People can be so cruel!  {{Hugs}}

    BabyFruit Ticker

    06.10.12 +HPT 06.12.12 Beta #1 = 2,770 06.14.12 Beta #2 = 6,300
    1st U/S 06.18.12 2nd U/S 06.25.12
    09.24.12 It's a Boy!! ---> Jacob Owen

    Our IF Journey Began: October 2009
    **8 Failed IUI's, 1 Blighted Ovum, & 1 Failed IVF**
    Dx: MFI, DOR w/MTHFR Homozygous A1298C & Hypothyroidism
    03.2012 Lab Results: FSH 6.83 AMH 0.67 TSH 3.8 E2 17
    SA 156 million 93% motility 3% morphology

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  • kaf7kaf7 member

    That's so tough. I've been there and I never end up saying what I had planned. I hope it either goes better next time or you have positive news on the IF front... or both! 

  • ((hugs)). I always want to say something clever but I end up getting to annoyed, and just say "when the time is right, I'll be sure to let you know." 
  • Yeah, don't you love that? Last year, a relative of DH's (only 10 years older than me) starting lecturing me about why I need to start TTC now, and why it is very bad to wait until my mid-thirties to have my first child. Mind you, this was at a point when DH and I had already been TTC for two years and were struggling (in secret) with infertility.
    Twins November 2012!


  • imagebout2bemrsG:
    Thanks Ladies! I know they meant well and I knew right when we walked in the door and saw our friends baby that the interrogation was about to begin.  I just need to come up with a better response than Indifferent, DH jumped in each time with a clever response as I sat there speechless.

     

    Yay, DH!!! Boo, family! I don't know why people feel the need to ask. When it happens, they'll know!

    Us: 39(me)/41(he). TTC since April '11. DOR/MFI. March '12: surgery to remove fibroids, cysts, and endometriosis.
    IVF #1: 9/13/12. ER: 9/25. 3R, 2M, 1F. ET: 9/28 (1-6B). Beta: moved from 10/11 to 10/10: BFN.
    IVF #2: 11/12 cycle postponed due to Sandy and then cancelled due to elevated E2.
    IVF #2.1 cancelled due to cyst.
    IVF #2.2: 2/2/13. Converted to IUI. BFN
    IVF #3.0: 3/2014. BCP & Microdose Lupron.  Cycle cancelled due to poor response.
    IVF #4.0: 2/2015. EPP @ new RE. ER: 3/8. 3R, 3M, 1F. ET: 3/11 (1-8cell). 3/23 Beta: 16.9. 3/25 Beta: 71.6. 3/27 Beta: 300. 3/29 Beta: 800 3/31 Beta: 1816. 4/1 Beta: 4342. m/c at 6w2d. Goodbye little one. I loved you already.
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