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Early loss

mypalbabsmypalbabs member
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After enjoying 6 glorious days of BFP, my partner suffered an early miscarriage this weekend.  Lots of tears and chocolate being eaten around here.

We're trying to focus on the fact that we do now know that my partner is able to conceive and that I can do a successful insemination!

 As soon as her body recovers, we'll try again.  Keep us in your thoughts, please.

The word you're looking for is SEX.  I promise.  No, it's not gender.  It's sex.  You're welcome.
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  • TaylorandMelTaylorandMel member
    Sorry to hear that. We had that happen once too, it's a hard thing. Wishing you a speedy healing.
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  • jennicole85jennicole85 member

    My heart goes out to you.  

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you're trying to look at what little positive that has resulted in this situation. 

    Good luck next cycle! 

    *BFP #1-10/20/2012 EDD 7/4/2013*
    *DS 6/28/2013*
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  • hlkehlke member
    Sorry for your loss.  Hopefully the next cycle will go better.
    Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm.  I am 35 and carrying.  Endometriosis and DOR.
    AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish

    IVF #1 - antagonist.  Empty follicle syndrome.  1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
    IVF #2 - antagonist.  Ovulated early.  3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
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  • mandykatiemandykatie
    I'm so sorry.
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  • ball.and.chainball.and.chain member
    Oh no -- so sorry to hear this.
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • KershnicKershnic member
    I'm so sorry.  I'm thinking of you.
    TTC with PCOS since July 2011.
    IVF Oct/Nov 2012
    Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
    Cautiously optimistic.
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  • LV1979LV1979 member
    so sorry...good luck next try!!!
    We had three BFN in the Fall of 2011. It is back on to some baby making come June. Swim little fellas, SWIM!!!!
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  • Mushroom79Mushroom79 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Trying to Conceive Ticker TTC since March 2012 via in-home AI due to husband's condition. Not TTA for a few years.
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  • mrl02mrl02 member

    So sorry for your loss!  I know how awful it is.  I also enjoyed a BFP for 6 wonderful days in 2010.  I can't remember the exact statistic, but it is alarming how many really early losses there are - just most people don't even know their pregnant yet.  They think they just had a period a bit too late. 

    Three months after our miscarriage, I conceived our son.  So hang in there and keep trying.

     

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  • tdmklmtdmklm member
    I am so sorry. Hang in there.
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  • mypalbabsmypalbabs member
    Thanks, everyone, for the encouragement and sympathy.  After a sufficient amount of crying and processing, we wrapped up the weekend by clearing the last few things out of the office we're turning into the nursery.  We want to set good intentions out into the universe.
    The word you're looking for is SEX.  I promise.  No, it's not gender.  It's sex.  You're welcome.
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  • nmartin1108nmartin1108 member
    So sorry to hear this. I know how hard it is. Take care of yourselves and best thoughts to you!
    IUI #1 (50 mg clomid and ovidrel) - BFN
    IUI #2 (100 mg clomid and HCG trigger) - BFN
    IUI #3 (Gonal-f and HCG trigger) - BFN
    IVF #1 - 21 retrieved, 20 mature, 15 fertilized (ICSI), 2 d5 blasts transferred, 8 frozen - c/p
    FET #1 - BFFN
    FET #2 - BFN? c/p? Either way no baby
    FET #3 - No shock...BFN
    FET #4 - BFN :-(
    Surgery and TTC cancelled - pursuing surrogacy
    7/31/12 Surrogate got a +HPT!!!! BabyFruit Ticker
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  • clairmeijclairmeij member
    So sorry! Good luck for your next try, and I like the intention setting :)
    IUI #1 - 10 April 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #2 - 05 May 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #3 - 05 July 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #4 - 30 August 2012 medicated and monitoredLetrozole and Ovidrel Trigger 
    IUI #5 - 27 September 2012 Letrozole 
    BFP! 9 October 2012 Betas:- 12DPO 16; 16DPO 96; 18DPO 315

    Baby Alarico born on 28 June 2013!!


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  • ssg73ssg73
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • 2brides2brides member
    I am sorry.
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  • JazibelJazibel member

    So sorry for loss - I wish you both all the best with your next try.

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