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LanaLoves · April 2012

Hello fellow Jan mommies. I haven't come around in a long time; it was nice scrolling through some of your posts and catching up with some stories

I just thought about this board today and how much it really meant to me during my pregnancy...Its not the most popular site up here in Canada but I suggest it to everyone I meet planning to become pregnant soon.

So lets all catch up a bit!!

1. Name of your LO?

2. Natrual or CSection?

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born?

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born?

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood?

6. How has sex been since LO was born?

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it?

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet?

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation?

10. Favorite baby item & why?

Sascha3 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Layla Grey

2. Natrual or CSection? Vaginal with epidural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Motherhood is much easier at 39 than it was at 15:) And much easier with a husband than being single.

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Sleeping in my bed...I said absolutely not, but she has been in there every night. If it lets me sleep longer then it is worth it! (She has moved to her Pack and Play this week!)

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? Second time mom, so no surprises really.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? It feels even better!! Now if my husband would get on board. He has also been trying more the last 2 weeks after I had a breakdown that he seemed sexually uninterested in me since the baby. Those of you who complain about the husband wanting it too much...trust me, it feels much worse when he doesn't want it at all.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? I want to start trying this summer/fall.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I gained 28, lost 18 the first week and not a single pound since:( I went back to the gym 2 weeks ago, so come one weight loss!

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We went to Seattle, LA and we are going to visit family in Ohio. We will probably get a beach house in Newport Beach for a week this summer too.

10. Favorite baby item & why? Boppy! It has made holding her during feeding so much more comfortable. And she loves just sitting in it and looking around the room. And my Snug A Bunny swing. It has been a lifesaver. She naps all day in it, and when she gets fussy, I put her in and she immediately calms down. She needs her alone time, just like mommy.

LanaLoves · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Nicholas Ray

2. Natrual or CSection? Scheduled CSection. Babe was in breech.

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? .. To trust my own instincts as a mother...Not to go exactly by the book on everything baby...

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? .... That breastfeeding is really not for me, and that its A-OKAY. And that he will be a happy healthy baby regardless.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How its not as "hard" as people say.. I think a calm parent = a calm baby. A happy mom = a happy baby. I don't let anyone get me down or have the opportunity to put me in a bad mood.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? AMAZING haha. Waited for 6 weeks post labor and since then all is good in the hood haha

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it?.. YES its so weird I want Nicholas to have a little brother or sister to make NICHOLAS more happy haha... I'd love to get pregnant next year around this time.. Would love to join the January 2014 board!

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet?.. So far so good. I've been doing the 1200 calorie diet, and losing 1.5lbs a week. Finally starting to feel like myself again. 10more lbs until my ideal weight.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation?.. Hubby and I are leaving LO for a week in June for a wedding in Mexico.. It will be so hard for me I tear up thinking about it; BUT i think it will be so good for me and for LO.. He will be more then okay with my mom... We plan to take him to British Columbia for 5 days in July/Aug.

10. Favorite baby item & why?..... Love the Lamb Cradle Swing. HE JUST LOVES IT too.!

Sascha3 · April 2012

LanaLoves:

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How its not as "hard" as people say.. I think a calm parent = a calm baby. A happy mom = a happy baby. I don't let anyone get me down or have the opportunity to put me in a bad mood.

Yes! I know there are exceptions, like a colicky baby or uncontrollable things like PPD, but generally I find this to be very true.

Also, I feel blessed to be able to stay at home. I feel like I have so much time on my hands! My house has never been more spotless! It is not nearly as hard as I was expecting. If I was still working I am sure I would feel very different. I didn't get to stay home with my first and it was so much harder.

GeekMom · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Elliana Grace

2. Natrual or CSection? Natural, pit & epi 11 hours after water broke, tore pretty badly

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? How to cope! whether its too little sleep, no coffee, not eating

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Cosleeping, was against it

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How emotional I could get over DD

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Horrible! Only tried it once!

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Yep, will try when DD is 18 months

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Not getting anywhere

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We're going to Atlanta for Dragon*Con (scifi convention) on labor day.

10. Favorite baby item & why? my ringsling! I can get her to nap!

bpwife&mama · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Jameson Christopher

2. Natrual or CSection? vaginal but not natural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? patience is a virtue

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Baby not sleeping in our bed ever. While it is rare that is ever in bed with us, I know sometimes it's necessary and I no longer think those that do it are crazy.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? That I am not as tired as I thought I would be. I am blessed with a wonderful baby, and I get to stay at home, so I attribute some of that to this.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? What sex??? Lol.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? We will, but not for a year or two.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I have lost 40, I need to lose 10 more for all baby weight to be gone. I plan to lose 20 more after that. I am dieting and exercising, so it's coming off.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We moved to Washington state for DH's job, so we will be traveling to our home state of MI twice this summer for weddings.

10. Favorite baby item & why? RNP!! It saved my life at night!

jen629 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO?Angelina

2. Natrual or CSection?Csection

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born?I never knew I could love someone that much

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born?making sure the house is spotless

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood?Its really hard to get things done..harder than I thought

6. How has sex been since LO was born?:O

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it?we are trying as soon as possible

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet?I have lost all my weight ..I gained 11 pounds in the pregnancy

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation?not really ..my family will be coming from out of town for Christening

10. Favorite baby item & why?Diaper pail,and RNP.....diaper pail keeps the house not smelling like diapers..she loves sleeping in the RNP

wolson1988 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Brandon James

2. Natrual or CSection? Vaginal with epi

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Trust my instincts

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Hmm.. I'm contemplating switching to cloth diapers

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How hard it was to take him to day care. I knew it would be hard but not THIS hard

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Horrible.. It hurts like heck!

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? We want to try again as soon as Brandon turns 1

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Pretty good actually. I am 8 pounds away from pre-prego weight but 14 pounds away from where I would like to be

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? Not at this point in time. We used up all of our vacation time when LO was born.

10. Favorite baby item & why? The boppy and mobile. Boppy makes it so much easier to hold him during feeding times (especially in the middle of the night) and he LOVES his mobile! Keeps him entertained while I get ready for the day.

jasieandry · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Elliana Rose 2. Natrual or CSection? Tried to go natural but 45 hours after my water broke I had to transfer from the birth center to the hospital for pit, epi, and antibiotics3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Married life + baby requires you to make a concentrated effort to keep the connection with dh 4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Cosleeping - I was going to have her in her own bed next to ours and she starts out there every night but at some point moves into our bed5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? I expected to fall in love with her at first sight and it actually took awhile. I had to get to know her and come to the realization that I am hers and she is mine.6. How has sex been since LO was born? It still hurts a little in the spot where I had the stitch from tearing but at the same time feels better than ever once we get past the initial pain7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Definitely. Not sure on the timing. I told dh we'd start talking #2 when she turns 1. At the moment we're not doing anything to prevent pregnancy but I am ebf8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I lost all my pregnancy weight within 2 weeks aaaand then slowly started gaining weight again. I was 147 prepreg and now I'm 151 9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We took her to Bryce Canyon in Utah and she went on her first hike with us and got her first sunburn oops bad mommy10. Favorite baby item & why? Boppy, swing, moby, and playmat - its a 4 way tie they all make life with baby so much easier

elsINlb · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Killian

2. Natrual or CSection? after 19 hours of labor I had a cesarean

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? It's not as hard as I thought it would be.

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Formula. We BF'd for a little over 2 months, but we switched to formula when I couldn't keep up with my hungry dude. And I'm okay with it. I think we're both happier.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? Just how many different types of bodily fluids you can have on you at one time...

6. How has sex been since LO was born? what is sex?

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? our plan is to have one more, we want to start trying again after I get my MFT license (hopefully within 2 years!)

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I've lost the baby weight, but I'm about 9 lbs from where I'd like to be.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? Hopefully Yosemite with my family, Arizona to visit my in-laws and San Diego to go to the zoo and Sea World

10. Favorite baby item & why? Hmm, toss up between the Boppy (it does everything!) and our co-sleeper that sits on top of the bed (so nice to have baby right there when we're sleeping)

kaybe24 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Kinsler

2. Natrual or CSection? C-section after 16 hours of labor

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Didn't know how much I would love him

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Breastfeeding is so hard, gave up after 7 weeks and 3 visits with a lc

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How tired I am

6. How has sex been since LO was born? ? ?

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Wanted to start early but need to recover so maybe a year

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Need to lose 15 pounds, was ready to get started and then got food poisoning so waiting to feel a bit better

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? No plans just 1 1/2 hour to my parents

10. Favorite baby item & why? The Fisher Price activity mat with the piano and our Graco swing that he naps in

KitKat83 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Declan Elliot2. Natrual or CSection? Emergency C Section after 12ish hours of labour and 10cm dilation, they discovered he was breech (butt first, folded in half) as I was ready to push... 3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? I've learned to let crap roll off my shoulders... any unwanted advice goes in one ear and out the other. Maybe with a nod and smile if you're lucky. 4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I thought I would want to really party it up hard just for one night since I used to have quite a social life, but now I have no desire and I'm perfectly happy being a hermit Also I used to want to travel to all these places like Nashville, Australia, Thailand, etc... Now I am excited to scrap all that to save up for Disneyland in 5 years 5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How awesome it is!! I never thought it would be this much fun!6. How has sex been since LO was born? Non existant, No desire. 7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it?Probably will start trying next year. 8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet?I am back to my pre pregnancy weight. It was easy for me because I have no appetite, and have to force myself to eat anything. Except milk and cookies... I love milk and cookies. 9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation?Camping all of June! 10. Favorite baby item & why?Quinny Buzz Stroller, I use it every day to walk him and he also sleeps in it during the day while I clean and do housework. ALso... Gripe water and ovol drops have been a lifesaver! ETA: SOPHIE THE GIRAFFE!! He loves it, chews it, cuddles it, squeaks it.

SarahsoontobeFleeman · April 2012

1. Name of your LO?

Tatum Marie

2. Natural or CSection?

Natural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born?

There are no "quick" stops. Ever.

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born?

Having DD sleep with me in the bed. I was convinced I wouldn't do this and now it breaks my heart to put her in her own bed.

5. #1 thing that has surprised you about motherhood?

I know how to do everything!!! Haha! I didn't think I would be clueless but it really amazes me how natural things came. I can't believe I was ever worried about not knowing what to do. I love being a mommy Smile

6. How has sex been since LO was born?

Non-existent.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it?

Of course. No plans but I'm thinking 5ish years.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet?

Thank you BFing, I am at my pre-pregnancy weight but I have some major toning to do.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation?

These are both big maybes. 4th of July in Florida (LO's first vacation.) And visiting our new friends in NH!

10. Favorite baby item & why?

Front carrier. Just got it and I am in love. DD is so entertained just looking around and I love that she is getting to see the world. +No tired arms +Definitely gives you a workout.

theladyjess · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Kjersten Elizabeth Marie

2. Natrual or CSection? All natural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? "Sleep when the baby sleeps" is complete BS! If I did that I'd never get a shower or time to eat. BFing is harder that I ever thought it would be

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Not sure...

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? I'm surprised at how well I can function on very little sleep.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Sex? What's that? We've tired once and it was soo painful I had to stop.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? I'm still undecided. I wanted two but we've had nothing but challenge after challenge since K was born and I don't ever wish to repeat the last two months ever again.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Easy. I was 2lb below my pre-preg weight a week before K was born. A month PP I was down 25lbs.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We're in the SCA so we'll be eventing (camping) pretty much every other weekend over the summer.

10. Favorite baby item & why? I'm obsessed with baby shoes. I think they're so cute and complete K's outfits. They're totally non functional but I can't stop buying them. At least I save some money and buy them at consignment sales.

raefre · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Thomas

2. Natrual or CSection? Vaginal

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? That I will be a crazy FTM sometimes...and that it is ok.

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I'm sure there is something, just not something I remember.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How much his one little smile could mean so much to me.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? ick. I *love* the fact that some scarring I have has made things highly uncomfortable and so we are only DTD once a week, mostly for DH's benefit.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Yes (2 more, preferably), starting fall/winter 2013

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Oh this made me laugh. I gained 50lbs (I swear 30 of it was in the last month) and I lost 30 of it within the first two weeks but really haven't gotten past that. I feel like I look still prego. To get to pre-preg weight, I need to lose 20lbs (still). I've been watching what I'm eating, baby-wearing when I'm not working, and standing on my feet for 12 hrs a day (does that even count?).

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? Brother's wedding in June and...work.

10. Favorite baby item & why? Moby - I love the closeness I feel with LO when I wear him..

SoonToBeMsP · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Abigail Rose2. Natrual or CSection? Natural3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Babies can be easy4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Sucking on a pacifier is sometimes the best thing for her5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? It's easier than I thought it would be6. How has sex been since LO was born? What sex?? (After we were cleared to DTD I started bleeding from the mini pill, then we both got sick and are STILL getting over it. Hopefully soon)7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Start TTC August 20138. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Great. I am below my pre-pegnancy weight but I still want to lose another 5lbs.9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? Going to WV later this month (alumni weekend for my DH), then Pittsburgh to visit friends in June and OBX in August.10. Favorite baby item & why? RnP- she loves it!

kms34 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Zach

2. Natrual or CSection? Planned c/s

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? to let go

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I do not want more kids

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How easily #2 just fits right in to the family

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Back to normal

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? nope, we are happy with our two boys

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? great! i'm down 20lbs from my prepregnancy weight (I was overweight to begin with). I want to lose about 7-10 more and I'll be really happy.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? None, we'll probably just visit family

10. Favorite baby item & why? Bouncy chair. I can put DS2 in it and strap him in so his brother can't mess with him.

lp0 · April 2012

LanaLoves:
Hello fellow Jan mommies. I haven't come around in a long time; it was nice scrolling through some of your posts and catching up with some stories

I just thought about this board today and how much it really meant to me during my pregnancy...Its not the most popular site up here in Canada but I suggest it to everyone I meet planning to become pregnant soon.

So lets all catch up a bit!!

1. Name of your LO? Bruce Raymond

2. Natrual or CSection? Vaginal with epi

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Motherhood is not that scary or hard

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I had initially thought I'd put ds directly into his crib. Now at three months he's still in the pnp by our bed. The thought of putting him in the next room gives me anxiety and makes me sad.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? The guilt. I accidentally clipped some skin when I was clipping ds's nails and he bled a little. He didn't even react but I wanted to cry that I had hurt him. This also goes for when he's crying, which luckily isn't often. I don't want him to be upset ever.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Ok. It hurt so much the first couple times but it's getting much better.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Yes, we'll start ttc when ds turns 2

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Honestly with the breast feeding it melted right off with zero effort. I'm back to my pre pregnancy size

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We're still discussing it. I want to go somewhere but dh is nervous about traveling with ds. We are planning to go to Lake George in September for their huge annual car show

10. Favorite baby item & why? His swing. Honestly without it I would never get anything done around the house

SmittyPants · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Maeve Amelia

2. Natrual or CSection? Vaginal with epidural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? That it's okay to just let her be. I don't have to entertain her 24/7

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Maybe it'll be just two kids instead of three.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? This will sound odd, but the thing I'm most surprised about is how little being a mom has changed me. I've seen people I know drop off the face of the earth after having a baby and that hasn't happened with me or DH. We still have a pretty strong social life.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? We haven't tried it yet. Healing from an episiotomy is a b*tch.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? We'll try again when she's around two years old.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I gained 50 with her. I lost 30 within the first two weeks and have been slowly losing the rest. I'd like to lose an additional 10 after that.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? I'm heading down the shore with three of my friends for a weekend and leaving DD with DH. I'd love for the three of us to go somewhere, but I don't think DH can take any more time away from work.

10. Favorite baby item & why? Her activity mat. She loves batting at the toys and it gives me a chance to have a nice, hot cup of coffee.

Jessie's Matron of Honor · April 2012

LanaLoves:

1. Name of your LO? Raleigh Jane

2. Natrual or CSection? Repeat c-section

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? I absolutely adore being a mother of 2!

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I no longer want to be a working mama. I want to stay home with my babies. Unfortunately, I spent 7 years earning a doctorate degree and feel guilty quitting my job given that I still have student loans.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? It is SO much easier this time around, despite having an active toddler in the mix, too. I love it!

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Rare.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? I'm not sure. I always thought I wanted 3 but I just adore our little family of 4 and it is so easy to play "man on man" defense with MH and I each taking on a child.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Weight loss has been fine. Now, I just need to tone, tone, tone.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? Two separate trips to the beach. Cannot wait!

10. Favorite baby item & why? Hmm...right now it's the playmat b/c my DD adores "Oscar the Octupus" and will talk to him and smile at him all day long

ryry1977 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Cordelia Leigh

2. Natrual or CSection? natrual with no drugs

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? co-sleeping (DD in arms reach co-sleeper) is so much nicer than when DS was in his own room by now. Love having her so close and easy for me.

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? bedsharing

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? well 2nd baby so not too much. I guess that having 2 so not so bad...actually love it:) Helps that DS loves his sister so much.

6. How has sex been since LO was born? not to often, but great when we do

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? I want one more, always wanted 3 kiddos

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Slow, have lots more that I want to loose. I have weight from my 1st pregnancy to loose I would love to loose about 50 pounds altogether.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? I don't think we are taking a real vacation this summer. Just camping, visiting my out of town parents, and smaller trips like that.

10. Favorite baby item & why? I love that rock-n-play, didn't have one for DS. Didn't even know what they were then.

MrsAMB07 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Anna Grace

2. Vaginal or CSection? Vaginal, med-free

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Girls are a little too easy to shop for, especially when you're trapped on a couch for hours on end BFing with internet access at your fingertips. - We were team green, so I feel like I have making up to do!

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? That this time around would be tougher. DS was super easy and DD was a bit high maintenance when she was born. Since 8 weeks she's turned into the most laid back, smiliest, sweetheart. Love, love, love her!

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? Second time around, so not as many surprises. I guess realizing what people say is true, your love doesn't split when you have another it doubles!

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Challenging...if the LOs are in bed we're usually exhausted!

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Hopefully, in about 2 years.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? Same as last time, lost a bunch right away, then plateaued. If I had just a few more hours in the day after their bedtime I might have a chance to work out.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? Not this year, but we live near the beach so I can't wait to take her!

10. Favorite baby item & why?Breastfriend - makes nursing so much more comfortable; Angelcare monitor - I sleep easier since DD is such a quiet sleeper; Nipple sheild - without it BF wouldn't have lasted.

linnsey26 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Tova Karin2. Vaginal or CSection? Vaginal, epidural and pitocin 8 hrs after water broke3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? I can trust my instincts. I can tell the difference between her tired cry, hungry cry, bored cry, and something is wrong cry. I worried I wouldn't be the most naturally maternal person but as soon as she was born that facet of my personality just emerged.4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I thought that I would have her in her own crib in the nursery at night and during naps. She has been room sharing with us since day 1 because I can't stand the idea of her being too far away at night,5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How difficult breastfeeding is. I really thought it would just come naturally for both of us. But due to bad latch and tongue tie, I've been EP for LO since 1 week pp. I also didn't realize how demanding and time consuming EP would be but I'm committed to going at least 6 months as long as my supply hold out.6. How has sex been since LO was born? Painful the first time. Uncomfortable the second time. And that's been it. I'm either too tired or just not feeling into it. Poor DH.7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? I keep going back and forth. Right now I can't imagine having the time or energy to take care of another baby. But I also would love her to have a sibling. My DH says it is up to me. If we do go for a second baby, it probably won't be for at least 2-3 years.8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I have lost all 40 lbs that I gained during pregnancy but I would like to lose at least 10 more lbs (by June/July hopefully). The pounds came off quickly but I definitely need to tone, especially my abs (or lack thereof currently!).9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? No... DH has to go to Hawaii for a business conference next month. I would have loved to join him but since I just started back at work again, I can't take time off so soon. We might take a road trip to visit family but otherwise we'll stay close to home all summer. 10. Favorite baby item & why? Boppy and the mobile. She loves watching the mobile while I pump and the Boppy is great for helping her sit up to look around.

LanaLoves · April 2012

Loved reading ALL of the responses!!!

CharlieTheUnicorn · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Scarlett2. Natrual or CSection? Natural in my bathtub after an only an hour and 45 minute labor3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? You can BF 4 kids easily but that doesn't mean you will your 5th!4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Babies don't sleep well, she is an amazing sleeper. 5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? Not much surprises me anymore, but scar sure has changed a lot of what I "knew" about babies. 6. How has sex been since LO was born? Great!7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? We are going to see how we feel at 6 months and make a plat for TTC our last. 8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? I've been about 5 lbs under my pp weight since week 2, but I have a lot more to lose. 9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We are planning a trip to visit friends in Georgia. 10. Favorite baby item & why? My swing that goes side to side, and my baby wrap carrier.

Katie31759 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Benjamin Joseph

2. Natural or CSection? Natural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? Even though you plan on things, you have to pretty much play everything by ear!

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? Oh there's so many. Cosleeping probably. And pacifier. Both have saved our lives!! lol

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How I can actually survive on so little sleep!

6. How has sex been since LO was born? We just started a week ago or so and it was great!

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? Yes, we plan on starting to try next April.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? hmm I lost all but 10 lbs I gained and they're not going anywhere right now lol I really need to lose like at least 40 though but I haven't been very good about exercising or eating great lately. I need some serious motivation!

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We're going to the outer banks end of September. I like going down in off season when there's not a ton of people there. My parents and my DH's parents (hopefully) are coming too.

10. Favorite baby item & why? Boppy!! I couldn't live without it!

courtneyklv · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Gemma June

2. Natrual or CSection? Natural!

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? That I love her more than I ever thought possible

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? That pacifiers are ok at times and letting baby cry is ok..no reason to stress about it.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? I learned that not all babies cry all of the time or keep mommies up ALL night..I have had a good sleeper since day 1! Also, that I really enjoy it and it came naturally to me. I was also surprised at how fast I adjusted to her sleep schedule

6. How has sex been since LO was born? um..hurts after 4 attempts7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? not sure8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? GREAT!!! I have lost it and feel fabulous! I also worked very hard going to the gym and working out at home.9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? San Diego 10. Favorite baby item & why? Boppy! We use it all day long, for naps, to prop her up, and even for tummy time.

courtneyklv · April 2012

Sascha3:
LanaLoves:

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? How its not as "hard" as people say.. I think a calm parent = a calm baby. A happy mom = a happy baby. I don't let anyone get me down or have the opportunity to put me in a bad mood.

Yes! I know there are exceptions, like a colicky baby or uncontrollable things like PPD, but generally I find this to be very true.

Also, I feel blessed to be able to stay at home. I feel like I have so much time on my hands! My house has never been more spotless! It is not nearly as hard as I was expecting. If I was still working I am sure I would feel very different. I didn't get to stay home with my first and it was so much harder.

YES! I also find this to be true! As of now it isn't as stressful as I thought..and I have never gotten only an hour of sleep or anything. My house is clean, I am happy, etc. My husband and I are both very laid back and because of this, things are good!

Jaime400 · April 2012

1. Name of your LO? Jacob

2. Natrual or CSection? Natural

3. #1 thing you've learned since LO was born? BF'ing is hard and alot of work. Definetly not like the movies

4. #1 thing you've changed your mind about since LO was born? I really thought I loved my Husband and Dog more than anything in the world. LO trumps them now.

5. #1 thing that has suprised you about motherhood? That I am so emotional. WTH Normally I am emotionless, now I am a sappy sap

6. How has sex been since LO was born? Its good, was painful at first.

7. Will you have another one, if so when do you plan for it? I think we are done.

8. How has weightloss been for you, and how far do you have to go yet? UGH. Plateau. Started back at WW this week.

9. Summer plans, taking LO anywhere for first vacation? We are big campers. So we will definetly be taking him out in our camper and hitting the road.

10. Favorite baby item & why? Could not live without the RnP. LO hated the co sleeper and once we got him in the RnP he slept for 3 hours in one night. It was great for my sanity.

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