TBH, I think her H should just move on. She was clearly actively looking to cheat... it's not like this was happenstance or accidental. I do think jcoleshould seek individual counseling, because this kind of ridiculous peter pan behavior isn't normal for an adult with a kid. Her H might want to do individual counselling too, to explore why he'd want to stay married to someone who doesn't respect, care about or love him.
And when I say counseling, I don't mean a random internet friend. Quit calling bumpies, you wackadoos.
TBH, I think her H should just move on. She was clearly actively looking to cheat... it's not like this was happenstance or accidental. I do think jcoleshould seek individual counseling, because this kind of ridiculous peter pan behavior isn't normal for an adult with a kid. Her H might want to do individual counselling too, to explore why he'd want to stay married to someone who doesn't respect, care about or love him.
And when I say counseling, I don't mean a random internet friend. Quit calling bumpies, you wackadoos.
ITA. And honestly, her child deserves better.
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Re: To my wife
I think you mean ZOMG!
I'm going to guess reconciling was the intended word.
That makes sense as well.
And when I say counseling, I don't mean a random internet friend. Quit calling bumpies, you wackadoos.
ITA. And honestly, her child deserves better.
::whispers:: pssst.... what is going on here?
Yeah - I am kind of confused myself. I've seen a few of the posts/comments before they were deleted but I am not sure that I have it figured out.