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fear of loss

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I am now 4 weeks pregnant and haven't tried to get pregnant after our loss until now. 3rd pregnancy. I have a 3 year old daughter and miscarried my second baby July 2009 about 7 weeks. I bleed with my 3 year old and miscarried my 2nd and going crazy about my 3rd. Walking on egg shell and I feel like no one understands my fear. Hoping to hear some positive or alike storys so I wont feel like I am alone. Thank you

 

Stephanie


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Re: fear of loss

  • chusumchusum member
    welcome to this board.

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    Married August 9, 2008
    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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  • Ladiebug710Ladiebug710 member
    You are not alone.  Welcome to the board, fingers crossed for a happy and healthy 9 months!

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  • ChevelleRiversChevelleRivers member

    I am also 4 weeks and equally as fearful; unfortunately it just comes with the territory after a loss. : ( 

    My best coping mechanism has been to take things one day at a time.

    Congrats and welcome. 

    Me (25) DH (33) BFP #1 on cycle #4: 2/7/12 - M/C 2/26/12 BFP #2 on cycle #1: 4/3/12 - DD born 12/18/12
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Welcome.  I think we all understand...being PGAL is terrifying because we've all had the worst possible outcome once.  It's natural to be afraid of it happening again, although I pray it won't.  I have freak-outs several times a day. 
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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