Community› The Bump Message Boards› TTC after 35
TTC after 35
New Discussion

It's not ok!

elizabethnseannyelizabethnseanny
in TTC after 35

Hubby keeps saying...its ok.. I don't feel ok!  Tomorrow is finally two weeks, my test day, but I've been testing negative all week. Obviously this is not the month for us. I had a few pms cramps today, but none of my usual pre-spotting..this is so frustrating!  :(

Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
Report Reply to Post

Re: It's not ok!

  • Bubs711Bubs711

    That's so frustrating.  I'm sorry! 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member

    I'm so sorry it's not your month, but I'm going to keep my FX that your hubby is right-- just in case.

     

    *********************************************************************************************

    "You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
            -- Abraham Lincoln
     

                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

    <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3a2798" style="font-size:smaller;" >
    <br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • elizabethnseannyelizabethnseanny
    Another BFN this am...I don't think I'm doing this next month. I miss the high from running, my whole forehead is an acne mess...and I feel just so angry and sad.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • brooklynesquebrooklynesque member

    I'm sorry about the BFN.  :-(  

    I hated Clomid -- it affected my emotions in a way that made the BFNs all that much harder.  Injectables are much better if that's an option.  

    Why did you have to stop running?  Were you just taking it easy during the 2ww?

    Report Reply
  • elizabethnseannyelizabethnseanny

    I stopped running because they said my heart rate should stay below 150, and when I run it doesn't stay below...then I even quit walking because the med combo made me cramp so bad I could barely walk for a week, and starts to rehurt everytime I do any physical activity, so for the last two weeks I took it easy.

    Thanks for the advice...injectables are an option...and I didn't respond well to the clomid so maybe we will try that.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • dhreczuckdhreczuck member

    I'm sorry, not exercising is the worst part, no way to relieve the stress. You can't exercise on the injectibles either, but I would agree the side effects with them really weren't bad at all, I had a little bit of an upset stomach most days but other than that, nothing noticeable.

    nate and teddy
    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!     Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Report Reply
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm sorry.  I'm sure your husband means well, but it's not coming out that way.  Maybe you guys could talk later & discuss what might feel helpful to you.  I hope your day gets better though. 
    Report Reply
  • elizabethnseannyelizabethnseanny

    Thanks everyone. He does mean well. I really don't feel like it's ok though...finding out I have DOR at barely 35 was rough for me. We are also newlyweds, so I feel like the moods, the negatives, it is just me letting him down. It's making our blissful marriage so unhappy right now, that I just want to stop trying. Any advice on how to not let IF take over your life?

    don't you love it when you've got a BFN and late AF!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"