"There's just one in there?"

mwitter80

I will never understand why people say the rudest crap. Earlier today, DH and I went and grabbed breakfast and the waitress asked when I was due. DH answered and the waitress replied "There's just one in there?" I just looked at DH and rolled my eyes.

Then tonight I went to get a pedicure and one of the employees asked when I was due to which she replied, "Wow you're big!"

WTF! I am measuring perfectly but for whatever reason every one has to drop their 2 cents in about how big I am.  I got in the car and started crying.  

Heartcease

Some people need to be punched in the head.  I can't believe that people have so little control over their mouths.  You're just fine, those people are stupid and have no tact whatsoever.  I know that doesn't make it hurt your feelings any less though.

lpope9608

I got the "are you SURE you're not having twins?" from women at work all the time with DD...it gets old really fast!! But, my "favorite" (sarcasm) was when the same people would look at me every single day starting a few weeks before I was even due and say "You're still here?" Ummm...are you looking at me? Then, yes, I'm still here. Dumbass! LOL!

This time, I'm a SAHM, so I don't have to hear any of it and it's great :-) 

S&DHutson

I find that depending on my outfit I can get, "wow, you are about ready to pop" or "Looks like you have quite a ways to go". Sorry people hurt your feelings today, that's never fun to have something said twice in one day.  Chock it up to the outfit and stupid people : )

lnyeager

I totally know how you feel!  I try to avoid telling people my due date so I don't have to hear the comments.

Gismo123

Wow, some people have some nerve Next time say something like "Oh and when are you due?" Maybe that will make them think twice when making a rude comment.

Stephanie0905

I am getting a lot of rude comments too. My husband and I went to the store last weekend and the cashier asked if I was due in April, I said no mid June. Then she proceeded to ask if we were having twins and I said no I am sure it's just one baby. Then she told me a story on how someone she knew recently had twins and had no idea until they were born and it might happen to me.

Then that same week, I sat down on nearby chairs at the checkout aisle as my husband stood in line and some lady goes "Wow  due any day now" and I said no mid June and she kept saying how I was big but have a short torso...blah blah

Rude people are everywhere! 

cchill01

S&DHutson:

I find that depending on my outfit I can get, "wow, you are about ready to pop" or "Looks like you have quite a ways to go". Sorry people hurt your feelings today, that's never fun to have something said twice in one day.  Chock it up to the outfit and stupid people : )

This!  I try to stick to tight, dark colored tops.  They seem to get the best response from the peanut gallery.  

MrsL1022

UGH people are so obnoxious! I was walking out of Target the other day and this lady was looking at me funny. I made the mistake of making eye contact and she goes "OH.My.God. you must be due any minute." I told her I was due mid June. She goes "oh that is a HUGE baby, I bet you will have a c/s." I told her to shove it an walked off. 

khill86

People have asked me that, too!! Any family or DH's family have asked out of genuine curiosity because my Dad is a fraternal twin.

 But strangers have asked me and for a while, it didn't occur to me that they were essentially saying that I was looking big. It doesn't really bother me at all, I just think, why do people feel like they can be filter-free to pregnant women?

mamayo26

Babies (and weddings) make people crazy and then come up with the most bizarre *** to say and you think 'where in the hell did you get that crap from?'...BFF is getting married in October and she was venting about family comments.

I am really short so I have no where for the weight or baby to go, so I get the really big/about to pop/twins comments all the time.

My cousin had twins a year ago, so my aunt kept pressing that I was having twins, I finally had to say "the chance of me having twins and not knowing about it are less than 5% after 9 weeks and since I have seen him at 12 and 20 weeks there is only one in there, I AM NOT HAVING TWINS! That kind of shut her up. My problem is a alot of it is water weight so I look bigger than I am, due to all the swelling.

So ready to have this LO out and in my arms, then the attention can be on him and not me. Not that I will want to talk about my baby with total strangers, so that will kind of suck too!

topaz7777

I'm tired of the twin comments also.  Yes I'm sure, I've had a lot of pictures.  No there isn't room for another one to be "hiding." 

sveva

It seems like we are all getting this. I don't understand why strangers feel the need to comment and if they do, why in the world would they say something like that? I had the twin comment and then some. Ugh.