i hate it...

sweetiestar

i love to torture myself so i find that i am obsessively checking the bump app on my phone in my birth month forum and the twins forum. i had a missed mc when i was 11 weeks the babies only measured 9.5 weeks. I was devastated, and i am only starting to pick the pieces back up and the only reason i can do that is i have to for my little boy. and today as i scroll through the tins forum i see this post about this lady complaining about being pregnant, how much she hates everything about it. she hated it with her first three kids and double hates it this time because she is having twins, she is 10 weeks 4 days and she is ready for it to be over. i wanted to leave a snotty comment, like you should be happy that your babies are ok because i would give anything in the world to have mine back...... 

kat530_528

I totally feel you here.  It sucks so badly hearing people who complain complain complain about the things they want to change but what they don't understand is that they have something you long for.  There are still times (7 months later) when I hear people say things like that and I just want to shake them!  I would do anything in the world just to have my baby back and that's something I will never be able to do.  I will never have the chance to feel those "annoying" sensations because my baby died.  Sometimes I hate those people but I have to keep telling myself that they know no better.  I don't wish on anyone to have to go through this but I wish people were more sensitive and less selfish.  One can only hope!  Hang in there.

kristynluvswill

I totally feel your pain.  I'm so very sorry for your loss.  At this point, I would give anything to be throwing up with morning sickness and not be able to sleep on my stomach because my boobs hurt too much...and want pickles at midnight...all of those "aweful" things that come with pregnancy.  Some people are just so ungrateful for what they have.  Life truly is not fair!

sweetiestar

i was terrible sick when i was pregnant the first time, in and out of the hospital on home iv's, septic from my picc line, gestational diabetes with insulin injections twice a day. and i never once wished i wasnt pregnant anymore. and i would kill to feel that way again with my babies safely with me it just makes me so mad