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5 Months

weddedwifeweddedwife member
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Today it has been 5 months since Nathaniel was born & died. I can't believe it has already been that long, and yet it seems like yesterday. How has the world continued 5 months past my baby's existence? It just doesn't seem right.

By this time next week, he will have been gone longer than he was here. It seems crazy to me that he changed our lives so much in that short amount of time.
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  • ehlersmehlersm member
    I know how you feel. It is three months for me today and it seems like all of this just happened yesterday. Think of how special our babies are to have left this big an imprint in such a short time. Hope you are doing OK today.
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  • tubbsy32tubbsy32

    It just doesn't seem right because this isn't right. I have a ultrasound framed picture that says "It's truly amazing how someone so small could inspire a love so grand"

     I'm so sorry. ((((hugs)))

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  • blessedhopeblessedhope member

    It doesn't seem right to me either, i am so sorry. Next month it will be 1 year since my baby was born and went to heaven and yet I still live in a heavy fog of grief. This grief makes time pass in a weird way. The calendar stopped for me last year on may 17 and my mind has been on continual instant replay of all the events of that tragic day ever since. People just don't realize that at the fore-front of my mind i am thinking about my baby and everything else is almost impossible to focus on.

    It was hard for me toa after 9 months when he was gone longer than i had him. I know what you mean by that.

     

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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    Big big hugs.  No matter how many months go by our angels continue to live in our hearts.
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    Big hugs. :-(
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  • karebear57karebear57 member
    ((Big hugs))
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  • barronabarrona
    Big ((hugs)) to you! It still shocks me how the world has moved on after Ava's passing. I'll be thinking about you lots today.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((HUGS))).  You and your sweet Nathaniel are in my thoughts.
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    ***HUGS***
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