Community› The Bump Message Boards› TTC After a Loss
TTC After a Loss
New Discussion

How long is your avg "quickie"?

shellycoshellyco member
in TTC After a Loss

(Is this TMI?) 

I'm talking during the fertile window, dog tired, DTD because you don't want to waste fertile CM kind of quickie.  Just curious to see if we are anywhere near average.  Sometimes I think we could break some sort of record for how fast we get it done. 

DD 9/2/13


Report Reply to Post

Re: How long is your avg "quickie"?

  • Rawr08Rawr08
    I don't use a stop watch or anything, my best guess would be 7-10 minutes.  :o
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    ??? TTCAL Buddies w/ BabyTrippin & CashewsMommy ???
    1st BFP = m/c 4.21.08 @ 7W5D (and divorce)
    TTC #1 since 6.10
    SA #1=Agglutination SA #2= Everything perfect
    HSG= All clear & perfect
    Currently learning to live Child Free
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    ?My NTNP Chart! ?My Blog!?Follow Me on Pinterest
    CLICK to give care & food to animals in need -
    ?Big Girls have babies too!?
    ??Success/pregnant after everything welcome - FHs need not apply??
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • princessbmwprincessbmw member

    Your post made me laugh! I'm thinking we're on the longer side. It just takes me a while to get "warmed up." a half hour is probably the usual length for our quickies!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    imageprincessbmw:

    Your post made me laugh! I'm thinking we're on the longer side. It just takes me a while to get "warmed up." a half hour is probably the usual length for our quickies!

    This.  I guess that means we never really do quickies.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • KacyChicagoKacyChicago member
    We've only ever done quickies in the shower, and they weren't TTC-related ... More like "Hey baby, I've got five minutes ... Want a good start to the day?"
    photo AlbumsWideColorBump_zps1797df63.jpg

    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
    Report Reply
  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    The quickest quickie I ever had with C was about 4 mins.. lol I was like um I got to be at work in 30 and I need a shower but I'm o'ing so come on.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • princessbmwprincessbmw member
    Good point OC! 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • poohbear033poohbear033 member
    I am not one for quickies, I like my foreplay.
    Wedding 08/08/08

    BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11

    Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11

    BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13

    Report Reply
  • GatorBaby2012GatorBaby2012
    If I have good CM and tell DH to skip the foreplay, under 5 minutes. Embarrassed
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • lovelainielovelainie member

    imageGatorBaby2012:
    If I have good CM and tell DH to skip the foreplay, under 5 minutes. Embarrassed

    This. If it needs to be quick, I just tell him to be quick about it.  

    TTC with MFI, PCOS, and endometriosis since February 2010
    BFP January 20,2012, Loss confirmed January 22,2012
    March-August 2012: Various medicated/IUI cycles, all BFN
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy October 2012: Fall Cleaning, Uterus Edition
    BFP 2-17-12 @12DPO Beta#1: 256 Beta#2: 1061
    EDD:10-27-13
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • shellycoshellyco member

    I'm so happy to hear these answers, you guys!  Our quickest quickie has definitely been within five minutes, no foreplay.  So glad I'm in the realm of "TTC normal"

    DD 9/2/13


    Report Reply
  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member

    imagepoohbear033:
    I am not one for quickies, I like my foreplay.

    This!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

    Report Reply
  • MissuskeekersMissuskeekers member
    Maybe 5-10 minutes?


    image


    Married 07/17/2010
    Diagnosed with PCOS 10/20/2010 
    TTC since Oct 2010 
    BFP #1 March 31st 2011 Due December 10 2011 
    Missed m/c discovered June 2nd 2011 at 12w4d
    D&C scheduled June 7th 2011 at 13w2d
    Found out our baby boy had Triploidy XXY through embryopathology
    BFP #2 September 28th 2011 Due June 8th 2012
    Missed m/c discovered November 20th 2011 at 11w2d
    D&C November 29th 2011 at 12w4d
    Found out our baby girl had Monosomy X through embryopathology
    BFP #3 April 24th 2012 Due January 5th 2013
    Betas falling on 04/26/12 Chemical Pregnancy
    RPL testing done, multi nodular goiters on thyroid discovered.

    BFP #4 November 22nd 2012, Due August 5th 2013
    Betas: 17 @ 9dpo, 62 @ 11dpo, 124 @ 12dpo, 321 @ 14dpo 720 @ 16dpo 13,805 @ 23 dpo 
    First ultrasound at 6w3d, hb 122 bpm. 
    Second ultrasound at 7w3d hb 143 bpm 
    Third ultrasound at 10w1d hb 167-170 bpm 
    Forth ultrasound 12w1d hb 167 bpm 
    Graduated rpl program, moving on to regular ob! 
    It's a boy! 

    Little man was born August 1st 2013, 7lbs 8oz and 20.5 inches long



    Report Reply
  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member

    A "quickie" for us is less than 5 minutes lol!

    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
    Report Reply
  • blessedhopeblessedhope member
    this is funny! I like reading the responses! ;)  10 min maybe?
    My little boy went to heaven during childbirth Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    BabyFruit Ticker

    type 1 diabetic for 7 years. Been on the pump for 6 years.
    Report Reply
  • rebekamrebekam member

    Maybe 15 minutes

    "If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again." Anniversary Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BabyFruit Ticker Stick Baby Stick!
    Report Reply
  • Mash67Mash67 member
    I would say 5-10 with out foreplay... which doesnt happen often, we both love foreplay too much just to go at it all the time, unless it gets really hot really fast!! 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • mijakachmijakach member
    We're not usually one for quickies. But I had one time that I came home from work and had to be somewhere soon so we fit it in real quick - probably less than 10 minutes.
    imageimageimage
    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
    BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012

    FF Chart
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
  • kiki4kiki4 member

    imageSterling13:
    We can get it done in less than 10 minutes if need be. Wham bam thank ya ma'am.

    Girl, you are making me laugh tonight! This would be us too...

    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
    *PGAL/PAL Welcome*
    Image and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPic 
     
    My Ovulation Chart
    Report Reply
  • kiki4kiki4 member
    imageSterling13:
    imagekiki4:

    imageSterling13:
    We can get it done in less than 10 minutes if need be. Wham bam thank ya ma'am.

    Girl, you are making me laugh tonight! This would be us too...

    Big Smile I think my already snarky mood today and excessive exercise has lowered my bump inhibitions...

    keep it up!Stick out tongue

    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
    *PGAL/PAL Welcome*
    Image and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPic 
     
    My Ovulation Chart
    Report Reply
  • CCline09CCline09

    imageSterling13:
    We can get it done in less than 10 minutes if need be. Wham bam thank ya ma'am.

    This. Of course- strictly for baby making purposes and no 'fun' on my part... 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • KpsbabyzoeKpsbabyzoe
    Yeah, we've definitely pulled off a super quickie around 5minutes.  It's like, ok you just got home late, I'm super fertile, lets do this and then I'm sleeping.  No romance, no foreplay, no warming up.  We try not to do these too often though, it makes TTC too much of a chore.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"