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kjwest5024

So my ex talks about whatever is going on with our son (him seeing him, child support etc.) to people at the local rescue squad were we are both members. He listens to this one girl in particular and she tells everyone else in this county (larger land mass, a lot less people) and the next. I told him the other day that he needed to stop. That what was going on between with will was mine and his business not the rest of the world. He claims he doesn't talk to anyone about it, but 2 hours later this girl post on fb this long things basically telling me to mind my own business.

What am I suppose to do about it? Do I confront her or him or both?

If something doesn't make since sorry. I'm trying to word it the best I can and I?m not good at explaining it on writing.

 

cwtbam

You can't control who he talks to. You can ask him nicely, but unfortunately he doesn't have to listen.  I finally had to tell my ExH that unless it had to do with DS, then he didn't need to talk to me. Which then created a mass fury of rumors and what not. Be the bigger person, if he wants to run his mouth, that's fine, but you don't have to. You could ask the girl not to meddle in  your business, but again, may not do any good. And I would do yourself a favor, delete her/him from your Facebook, obviously their intentions are always the best.