ugh...possible TMI

EKGibs

omg I have never wanted so badly to just get in bed & GO TO SLEEP! lol my OPT last night had a VERY dark line so that means I had a LH surge but I am so tired of DTD! I know we need to do it but (moaning in anguish)I'm tired of dtd for a while.But if we dont tonight & we dont get a BFP I would always wonder if this would be the time it took. aarrrrgggghhhh. does anyone else ever feel like this? there's not anywhere else I can talk about this kind of thing without getting strange looks. maybe it will be quick lol. sorry if it was TMI.

JuddandJessica

Yep! Lately it's like we need a pep talk. "ok. This might be it. Let's do it so we can go to bed. Nothing fancy. Go team."

ct103

Yep! This same EXACT scenario happened to me last cycle. I didn't BD on my OPK+ day because I was exhausted and DH was working late. So we didn't, and it was a BFN cycle. Trust me, I don't blame my BFN on this one particular day. But if this is what you needed to hear to encourage you to BD, then I wanted to share! Good luck and just remember, this is not the part that you'll remember if you get a BFP!

CNYBride05

Oh honey, I've been there!  Especially the always wondering if the time that we didn't was the time that it would have mattered.  Hang in there, make him to all the work, and have a lovely nite's sleep :-)

panacea05

Doooooooooooo it!

bananers

I have been there, believe me. I think we all have. I like the pep talk analogy above. (go team - LOL)

Times like this call for just getting it done by whatever means is the most efficient, nothing fancy. You can do it! 

orangegoggles

Yup, gotta power through it or you'll spend the rest of the cycle worried that you msised your chance. Good luck hun!

chrisleath

This happens to me.  Especially last month.  I tried the EOD routine and it just did not work for me.  It ended up feeling like a job, too routine, ect...  So this month I decided I would just let things happen, which of course I really can't.  Now that I ma getting into my fertile window, which I am aware of and DH is not, I am putting that extra effort to make we DTD more often. 

What helps me in the times when I just do not want to DTD cause of whatever reason is, I find that once I start I end up getting into it.  I just have to get over that hump of getting things started then I am in it.  But it can be hard.

Mom2anAngel2

I definately have days when I feel like that!  But my brain does the what if dance too, and I usually just suck it up.  GL!

EKGibs

thanks everybody for the pep talk!