I'm seriously done being the ONLY one!

Mickschick

DH does EVERYTHING for EVERYONE other than ME. I'm 34 weeks pregnant and scared at this point. Yesterday was the day in the twins pregnancy that I delivered them. So of course I would be nervous- but I had a Dr's appt on Thurs and everything looks good- no reason to think that I would go early.

Anyway- DH is always doing things with his business...which is fine. I understand that the business is having  problems and that we are gonig to have 3 kids and I have to stay home with them and we wouldn't be able to afford daycare with both of us working. I get it. I get that it take a lot of work to make it run right and that he has a lot of errands to run and books to keep. I need help to though. I'm the one that does EVERYTHING with the kids. And we just moved them to toddler beds b/c they were climbing out of the crib. We have no closet doors on their closet (we have closet organizers and it was just easier to be able to see all their clothes with no doors.) Well now they constantly rip the clothes out of the closet. I want the doors put back on. I've been saying this for MONTHS. I'm having a baby in just under 5 weeks and we don't have the room set up and we haven't even bought the 3rd crib. And today he is helping my mom move. Tomorrow he has to go shopping for the business. And here I am with 2 destructive toddlers. I'm very depressed today and I'm going to fully admit that I'm not excited at all about having a 3rd baby at this point. I can just see it now...me trying to heal from a c-section, taking care of a newborn and running around slaving after the twins...baths and all. Thanks for listening. I feel a little bit better.

Steffani

(((HUGS)))

I'm so sorry... it sucks to be overworked like that! You need a break, and fast.

Firt about the doors, I'd give him one more chance to get them up and then I'd be doing it myself or calling a handyman... it shouldn't cost much- there's not much to it, and it's worth your mental sanity.

?Sounds like you need to sit down with YH and have a talk about what you need and what your expectations are for when the new baby comes. Good luck, I hope things improve!?

macchiatto

Ditto Steffani. And lots of hugs to you; that would be really tough. No wonder you're feeling anxious and stressed!

kyluvsaj

Oh Sweets.  I am giving you a big ol virtual hug.  I am sorry that you are feeling so alone (been there).  You guys definately need to talk.