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lilhockeygurlMOM
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Relationship with BD
lilhockeygurlMOM
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Things have been going great. We talk things out and try to make family time. We talk daily and he sees DD as much as possible. Things are moving forward for the best. BD wants to move in together in a couple months and with how great things have been going the last couple months I'm interested but I don't wanna move to fast in fear of getting hurt or things not working out. I'm kinda lost on the whole situation.
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Re: Relationship with BD
She was the one with 69 in her old name, pot smoking was mentioned, people posting on her bump account, they broke up and he was seeing someone else, she goes back and forth.
I guess you never went to counseling but I still think you need that before you do anything.
(I've been on here for a little while but have changed my SN)
I don't know your back story but I commend you for trying to keep your family together. If you love each other and you both are willing to work on things then I think it can work.
However, if there is drug use involved I think it's going to be a pretty difficult battle ahead of you that may not be worth it. It just depends on what you can accept and what you cannot. In my experience people who continue to use pot into adulthood will most likely do so for the rest of their lives. I know many people who chose that lifestyle. If that is not something you want to be around then you have to make the decesion to leave. I don't think you can change someone if they aren't willing to do it on their own. As an FYI I know a married couple that got married when she knew he used pot. Fast forward ten years later and two kids later and she thinks he is no longer using pot, but I know for a fact he still does it behind her back. If that is not how you want to live you need to really think about your future. It really just depends on what you are willing to live with.