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What happens in Vegas...?

So, one of my friends at work that was on the Vegas trip came to my office today and closed the door.  His girlfriend is pregnant and it happened in Vegas.  They haven't decided what they are going to do, but she has had abortions before and eventually wants kids.  She's leaning towards keeping it as she is genuinely afraid another abortion might hurt her fertility.  He is leaning towards not keeping it.  Not because he doesn't want kids but because they've only been dating for 2 months, doesn't know where this is going and doesn't want to be a single parent.

His confession and the details about her fertility concerns led to a confession from me about our fertility struggle.  I feel good about getting that out.  We had a good conversation.  I hope that they keep the baby.  I really like his girlfriend and he really likes kids - it's so obvious that he really wants to be a dad (someday).  It is honeslty the first time in a long time that someone told me about a pregnancy and my first reaction was joy, not jealousy.

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Re: What happens in Vegas...?

  • wow - dating only 2 months.   That's still so new!  good luck to them. 

    My friend from my local knot days who is now on BOTB got her BFP today - and it happened in Vegas.

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  • ::books tickets to Vegas::
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    Logan Henry - March 15, 2010 - March 22, 2010. We will always love you sweet baby boy.
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    ::books tickets to Vegas::

    If only I had Od in Vegas.  I would definitely be KU now.

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    Blog - No Longer on the DL ~ The Man Cave
    Shawn and Larissa
    LO #1 - Took 2 years and 2 IVFs ~ DX - severe MFI mild PCOS homozygous MTHFR (a1298c)
    LO #2 - TTC 7 months, surprise spontaneous BFP!
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  • We're supposed to go to Vegas b/w ER an ET. ?Here's hoping...
    IVF w/ ICSI #2 - fraternal twins born December 2010 at 36 weeks.
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  • I got KU in vegas once... hmm.
  • It's cool you were able to talk with him.  Very cool of you.

    I hope he has some time to think and things work out well for all of them.

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