So, one of my friends at work that was on the Vegas trip came to my office today and closed the door. His girlfriend is pregnant and it happened in Vegas. They haven't decided what they are going to do, but she has had abortions before and eventually wants kids. She's leaning towards keeping it as she is genuinely afraid another abortion might hurt her fertility. He is leaning towards not keeping it. Not because he doesn't want kids but because they've only been dating for 2 months, doesn't know where this is going and doesn't want to be a single parent.
His confession and the details about her fertility concerns led to a confession from me about our fertility struggle. I feel good about getting that out. We had a good conversation. I hope that they keep the baby. I really like his girlfriend and he really likes kids - it's so obvious that he really wants to be a dad (someday). It is honeslty the first time in a long time that someone told me about a pregnancy and my first reaction was joy, not jealousy.