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At least it's predictable...

nmartin1108nmartin1108 member
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Looks like another BFN. My beta isn't until tomorrow, but today is 8dp5dt and a negative on a FRER. Unfortunately we're not shocked. At this point it just seems like this is what happens. We put embryos in, we wait, we get a BFN. Blagh. 
IUI #1 (50 mg clomid and ovidrel) - BFN
IUI #2 (100 mg clomid and HCG trigger) - BFN
IUI #3 (Gonal-f and HCG trigger) - BFN
IVF #1 - 21 retrieved, 20 mature, 15 fertilized (ICSI), 2 d5 blasts transferred, 8 frozen - c/p
FET #1 - BFFN
FET #2 - BFN? c/p? Either way no baby
FET #3 - No shock...BFN
FET #4 - BFN :-(
Surgery and TTC cancelled - pursuing surrogacy
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Re: At least it's predictable...

  • tdmklmtdmklm member
    Hugs to you both. I'm sorry. It ain't over 'til it's over, though... Still crossing my fingers for you.
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  • ball.and.chainball.and.chain member
    Ugh.  So sorry.  FX that the beta tells a different story.
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
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  • TaylorandMelTaylorandMel member
    I understand how frustrating and painful this is.  Sorry that you guys are having to go through this.  I hope that God's plan for you becomes more clear in the near future.
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  • 2moms2twins2moms2twins

    aww HUGS Nmartin ... and as previous poster said it aint over till aunt flow shows. 

    Does your RE give you any insight on why the previous FET did not take?  

    Sending POSITIVE thoughts !!!!!

     

    J & M 

     

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  • 2brides2brides member
    I am sorry! :(
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  • ssg73ssg73
    I am so sorry I can't imagine how hard this must be.  Hugs
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  • ctbride08ctbride08 member
    I get it - and I'm so sorry :(

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  • hlkehlke member
    I am so sorry. :(  I was thinking of you guys this weekend, and I'm still hoping for the best, but I know you have to prepare yourself for the worst.
    Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm.  I am 35 and carrying.  Endometriosis and DOR.
    AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish

    IVF #1 - antagonist.  Empty follicle syndrome.  1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
    IVF #2 - antagonist.  Ovulated early.  3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
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  • norika33norika33

    Boo. sorry guys, I know its hard and we're thinking of you. 

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  • nmartin1108nmartin1108 member
    image2moms2twins:

    aww HUGS Nmartin ... and as previous poster said it aint over till aunt flow shows. 

    Does your RE give you any insight on why the previous FET did not take?  

    Sending POSITIVE thoughts !!!!!

     

    J & M 

     

     

    He thinks that even though 8 embryos made it to freeze and so far all of them have survived the thaw and appear to be doing well at the time of transfer that the reason they aren't taking is because of my initial egg quality. Apparently even though they appear fine, they just aren't viable and at this point there is just no way of knowing.  

    IUI #1 (50 mg clomid and ovidrel) - BFN
    IUI #2 (100 mg clomid and HCG trigger) - BFN
    IUI #3 (Gonal-f and HCG trigger) - BFN
    IVF #1 - 21 retrieved, 20 mature, 15 fertilized (ICSI), 2 d5 blasts transferred, 8 frozen - c/p
    FET #1 - BFFN
    FET #2 - BFN? c/p? Either way no baby
    FET #3 - No shock...BFN
    FET #4 - BFN :-(
    Surgery and TTC cancelled - pursuing surrogacy
    7/31/12 Surrogate got a +HPT!!!! BabyFruit Ticker
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  • seattlekariseattlekari
    (((Hugs)))...thinking of you...
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  • KershnicKershnic member
    I'm so sorry.  I hope all of the egg quality stuff you've been doing brings you much success in the next attempt.
    TTC with PCOS since July 2011.
    IVF Oct/Nov 2012
    Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
    Cautiously optimistic.
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