Non-clicky sex poll

carissa_danielle

I'm curious how things in the bedroom are going since we are all parents now...

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents?

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO?

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby?

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex?

everam01

since the board is dead and there won't be a lot of responses, I'll bite:

 

 

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents?

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO?

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? No and no

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? No, never felt the need even pre-babies.

carissa_danielle

I feel the need to share my opinion on my own questions.... I'm not shy.

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? Much less often... 2 kids is a bit busier

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? mostly out of pity for DH

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? I have to be somewhat groomed... otherwise I feel like a Yetti

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? On the Yetti thought.... I feel like I have to shave my legs. I have never asked DH if it bugs him or not, but I feel soooo unsexy with hairy legs. .... Maybe it doesn't matter to guys?? I don't know...

tlxh7

carissa_danielle:

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? way less

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? some of both...typically I start out just wanting to let him know I love him and find him sexy, and then up enjoying way more than I expected

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? nope and nope

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? nope...I have been known to get frisky with a weeks worth of stubble (ew)

toadstool

carissa_danielle:

I'm curious how things in the bedroom are going since we are all parents now...

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? Some weeks we have sex as often as we did pre-baby, other weeks it's a little less often.

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? I want to. I'm tired more often, but I still want to.

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby?My grooming habits are the same.

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex?I don't always, but I like to.

Athena0809

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? Way less!

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? Mostly out of pitty, but I end up enjoying it way more than anticipated!

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? Somewhat, nothing differently post-baby, but as a personal preference. Thay have changed just a tiny bit, I don't keep up as often as pre-baby.

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? Nope. DH would be so greatful to have sex nowadays he wouldn't care if it meant having sex with chewbacca!

kacelle

1.  For a while, it was more often.  Now less, but it has nothing to do with DD.  We're just busy.

2.  Because I want to.  

3.  I'm always somewhat groomed, but I don't feel that I HAVE to.

4.  Shaving my legs is a rare event.  But DH doesn't notice when I don't.  I have really fine, almost invisible hair and I don't get super prickly. 

kerrbear72

What is this sex thing you speak of?

Elocin

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? About the same or less.

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? Pity, but I do enjoy myself!

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? I don't have to groom before sex, but if I've groomed, I will offer. I'd say I groom less often.

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? No.

carissa_danielle

kerrbear72:

What is this sex thing you speak of?

I know.... DH asked about it the other day, and I almost had to look it up in the dictionary..... Blow the cob webs off the old vajayjay... Sex is overrated.

LovelyLou23

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? WAY more. I would say we now actually have a healthy sex life. I'm honestly not really sure how DD was conceived. (kidding)2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? We both want to.3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? Nope. 4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? And definitely no. DH hardly ever notices when I do.

kelly321

kerrbear72:

What is this sex thing you speak of?

We're rediscovering it now that we're TTC#2. For a looooong while it was a lost art around this household. Now I can look at my Fertility Friend chart without feeling like a horrible wife.

tokenhoser

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents? less

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO? Somewhere in the middle... it's scheduled, which is unsexy but ensures we aim to do it twice a week... but I agreed to that mostly out of pity.

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? I've gotten lazy. No one cares.

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? Nope.

 

jazzyag

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents?  Less, way less, it's kinda sad

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO?  Sometimes one and sometimes the other, but even it it's pit sex I usually end up enjoying it too.

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby? No and no

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex? no, don't you dare check under my pant leg, it's been way too long...

carissa_danielle

Thank you,ladies..... You have calmed my fears. Here I thought I was the ONLY one who didn't shave their legs every or every other day! I dread summer.... That means if I want to wear shorts without looking like a Yetti, I have to actually get up a little earier in the morning to shave. Booo!

KelsnEm

carissa_danielle:

I'm curious how things in the bedroom are going since we are all parents now...

1) Do you have sex more or less often now that you're parents?

About the same, maybe a little less because of our schedules.  It's hard to still find time for those "afternoon delight" days

2) When you do you have sex, do you DTD because you want to, or out of pity of your SO?  

Totally because I want to. My drive has increased and now it's just a matter of finding time we're both awake and DD isn't 

3) Do you have to "groom" before sex? Did your "grooming" habits change post baby?  

 No 

4) On the subject of grooming... Do you HAVE to shave your legs before you have sex?

 No. Though I do this regularly because I like it.  

LAImama7

I have pretty much all of the same answers as you...glad to see I'm not the only one having lots of sex.  3 kids 3 and under has not slowed us down, haha.

LAImama7

Ugh, I clicked the wrong button the first time.  My response was in response of 
LovelyLou23.  

Ditto to what she said