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One year ago

jkfranklinjkfranklin member
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Today, I had my D&C. It's weird because I don't feel like I have an anniversary to recognise because I had a missed m/c so we don't know when exactly the baby died. So today is the closest thing I have. I'm having a really strange day emotion wise. I think numb best describes it. I should be sad that I lost my baby but happy that I am pregnant now and this LO is healthy. I don't really have a point to this post, just talking so thanks for listening!
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  • panacea05panacea05 member

    ((hugs)) I'll be thinking of you as you make it through this rough milestone.

    I had a missed m/c, too, and I also count the day my baby actually left my body as the anniversary of our loss.

    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • starrynight1658starrynight1658 member
    ((hugs))
    "Do not anticipate trouble, or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight."
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    BFP #2: 8/30/11 Vanishing Twin diagnosed at 8 weeks, DS born 5/6/12 
    BFP #3: 5/24/14 stick, baby, stick! Beta 1 (16dpo): 645, Beta 2 (18dpo): 1652
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  • jenada2011jenada2011
    imagepanacea05:

    ((hugs)) I'll be thinking of you as you make it through this rough milestone.

    I had a missed m/c, too, and I also count the day my baby actually left my body as the anniversary of our loss.

    Me too. ((hugs)) on this really hard day!

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  • DragonflyBelleDragonflyBelle
    :( So sorry you're dealing with this. Milestones/anniversaries are rough. Be kind to yourself today.
    DD#1 11.7.07 - DD#2 11.2.10 (3rd Tri Loss)- DD#3 4.18.12
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  • gina&dave07gina&dave07 member
    ((HUGS))
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  • ktsnshnktsnshn
    Lurking here.... ((Hugs)) I have been wondering how you were doing. Good luck with the next few weeks.
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
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  • charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
    ((Big hugs)) It is such a wave of different emotions and I am having the same struggle with sadness for our loss and happiness for this pg.

    TTC since 7/10, BFP#1~6/28/11(4wks2d)~EDD 3/4/12, missed m/c(8wks)~8/12/11, D&C~8/16/11
    BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

    BFP#3~1/12/14~EDD 9/23/14, Found out baby is a girl!~4/18/14 :)

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  • RedRose84RedRose84
    **Hugs**
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  • sbphotossbphotos member

    Big, HUGE, hug for you  

    It's a very strange thing to miss/be sad about our little angels while feeling happy/grateful for our current pregnancies. I think they're looking out for us for sure and would want us to be happy.

    Seeing these posts is making me very sad since I'm 2 weeks from my own "one year ago" post. I remember us all being on mc/pl together.

    What makes me happy is that if you go WAY back and look at your old posts on mc/pl (which I sometimes like to do), have a look at the siggys and you'll see so many fruit tickers :-)

    I know it's a cliche on these loss boards, but it's true...though I'm so very sorry we all had to "meet" under such circumstances, I'm so grateful to have found these boards and such a great group of gals.   

    Me: 39 DH: 35 - TTC #1 since October 2010
    BFP #1 2-1-11 Missed Miscarriage 3-14-11(9 wks)-D&C
    BFP #2 9-17-11 EDD 5-29-12
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  • bluebonnetmegbluebonnetmeg member
    ((hugs))
    BFP#1 12/18/10 EDD 8/28/11 | 2/14/11 discovered that our baby girl had anencephaly D&C 2/17/11 at 12.5 weeks | no O or AF post loss - Dx: AO + mild PCOS = secondary infertility Provera after 70 days = AF but no O | Provera + 50mg Clomid after 110 days = AF but no O 3 rounds of 100mg Clomid + Estrogen + Progesterone = mixed O results, all BFN hysteroscopy 1/6/12 - removed fibroid tissue injection cycle #1 - 75 IU follistim + ovidrel (triggered 2/9/12) + endometrin = BFP! EDD 11/3/12 | Beta @ 13dpo = 184, 17dpo = 993, 26dpo = >5000 IT'S TWIN BOYS!! Tommy and Charlie arrived on 9/10/12 after less than 6 hours of labor at 32 weeks Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • BabymamawithdramaBabymamawithdrama
    Hugs. So sorry you are having a tough day of emotions.
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    Lost our first angel, 10/24/08 7w6d
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    Lost our second angel, 2/16/11 8w
    Proud mama to Melanie
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