Still in limbo...

KtGirl88

I hate this feeling of waiting. Things are amazing. I am enjoying the time with my daughter by myself and not having to deal with him but I am so nervous for what is to come. He should have received my counter petition last week (pretty much just denying everything he asked for and our reasoning why) I have been writing him email updates with pictures on Marina since she is having a lot of testing done and has changed so much and he hasn't replied to anything. He hasn't seen her in over a month. Maybe he is giving up? Or getting an attorney? Or waiting until our case management meeting (end up march at the earliest) I just want to know what he is going to do. Whether I can enjoy my life with her or have to worry about him having her. He is living it up. I check his Facebook now and then and he is partying like crazy and loving life so maybe he will just do us a favor and go away?

KtGirl88

Ugh.... excuse my massive siggy. I keep editing it to be smaller and it won't change!!!!

cemacmil

Sorry for the waiting, it does suck - I won't lie about that. But it sounds like the court won't really side with him if he is unresponsive to updates, especially medical. Also - I would print off any FB pages because they are time stamped and it will show he has time to do other things, but has no interest in your DD.

As for your life - try and keep enjoying it and living day by day enjoying your DD and keep those visits (whether they are EOW, or whatever) in the back of your head. That is what I am trying to do, easier said than done but just try.

Bottom line - I think truly you and your daughter will be OK. She will be with and raised by you and you girls will be great!

MsJosie

KtGirl88:

I hate this feeling of waiting. Things are amazing. I am enjoying the time with my daughter by myself and not having to deal with him but I am so nervous for what is to come. He should have received my counter petition last week (pretty much just denying everything he asked for and our reasoning why) I have been writing him email updates with pictures on Marina since she is having a lot of testing done and has changed so much and he hasn't replied to anything. He hasn't seen her in over a month. Maybe he is giving up? Or getting an attorney? Or waiting until our case management meeting (end up march at the earliest) I just want to know what he is going to do. Whether I can enjoy my life with her or have to worry about him having her. He is living it up. I check his Facebook now and then and he is partying like crazy and loving life so maybe he will just do us a favor and go away?

I hate the waiting game too! We are scheduled to go to court for a temporary custody/visitation schedule on Friday and it's been almost eating me alive. I feel the same way you do about being happy and just living my life, but it seems when I do the storm comes rolling. You know like they say, it's the calm before the storm?? I hope my ex does us a favor and just goes away too!! Good luck!

FyreFlyeRush

I can't stand the waiting game. Alien isn't even born yet, so it's just going to be hanging over my head for the forseeable future.

IDK why they do these things except to make the custodial parent hurt and panic. Print off everything you can find. I got one JF paosted of driving 120mph while drunk and taping the whole thing on his phone. He took it down and says it didn't really happen, that I made it up, but...really...FB never deletes anything...and those can be subpeoned just like everything else.