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Late Term and Child Loss
BFP 10/31/11 EDD 7/15/12 pPROM 2/25/12
"How very softly you tiptoed into our world. Almost silently; Only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footprints have left on our hearts."
Devastated.
I'm 19 weeks and Tuesday night my water broke. Baby is no longer moving but there is still a heartbeat. They are telling me that there is a 1% change that the water will replenish and I will carry this baby to a age that she will make it. More than likely I will be going into labor any time. I'm terrified about how that is going to go. My baby girl is too young to make it and her daddy and I just can't bear to see her. I have no idea what I'm going to do.
I'm trying to believe in miracles.
BFP 10/31/11 EDD 7/15/12 pPROM 2/25/12
"How very softly you tiptoed into our world. Almost silently; Only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footprints have left on our hearts."
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Re: Devastated.
I am so sorry! I hope everything works out.
Pin case things don't go well and your precious little girl comes early, don't worry yourself about seeing her. You'll make the best decision for you at the time. Mu husband and I did not look at our little boy but in hindsight I wish we had. If you choose not to see her, know that it's okay. It does not make you a bad mother. I would recommend, however, asking for pictures in case you change your mind. That way you can look if you want or not. At least you have the option.
We do have our little baby's footprint and I am SO happy to have it.
Best of luck. We are here for you!
Septated uterus, pcos (on metformin), MTHFR
Clomid # 1- July 2010 = BFN / #2 Sept 2010= BFN
IVF#1 - 1/2011 = BFN (Severe AF started 7dpo)
IVF#2 - 3/2011 = Ectopic
Aug 2011- FE - Thaw all - cancelled - embryos didn't make it!
Oct 2011 - IVF#3 = BFP!! ~ TWINS!!
Said goodbye to Twin B @ 9w5d
Hudson Edward ~ Pprom 18 wks 2/16/12 - We love you forever. You have our hearts.
8/15/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 7wks gestation
11/9/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 5wks gestation
12/28/12 - Septated Uterus Found (was misdiagnosed as bicornuate!)
thelossblog.blogspot.com
I agree w/above... When first going through the delivery I thought I could not see my baby... I'm now happy I did ... he was beautiful.. but there is nothing wrong with either decision you make here..
Septated uterus, pcos (on metformin), MTHFR
Clomid # 1- July 2010 = BFN / #2 Sept 2010= BFN
IVF#1 - 1/2011 = BFN (Severe AF started 7dpo)
IVF#2 - 3/2011 = Ectopic
Aug 2011- FE - Thaw all - cancelled - embryos didn't make it!
Oct 2011 - IVF#3 = BFP!! ~ TWINS!!
Said goodbye to Twin B @ 9w5d
Hudson Edward ~ Pprom 18 wks 2/16/12 - We love you forever. You have our hearts.
8/15/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 7wks gestation
11/9/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 5wks gestation
12/28/12 - Septated Uterus Found (was misdiagnosed as bicornuate!)
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
I lost my little girl on saturday. I cant imagine your situation as it is a waiting game. I will pray for a miracle for you. They do happen. I am starting to realize that every healthy baby that is born is a miracle. I didnt think I would want to hold my baby. I was afraid to see her come out. So I didnt watch. But they cleaned her up and I held her and she was amazing. So tiny and perfect. I could see so many of our dominant features in her. Have faith in your nurses and doctors. Tell them exactly what you want. They will make it happen. I will be thinking about you tonight like I think of all the moms on here. They are all amazing women.
I am so very sorry that you have to be here. I know how difficult and overwhelming this must be. Don't worry about the delivery just yet. You will make the right decision when the time comes.
I will say that I chose not to see my first. I was scared and in shock and regretted it after. My husband also felt strongly about not seeing him. When my 2nd came around, we held him and spent time with him. I would not take those moments back for the world. You will surprise yourself will how strong you will be.
If you have any questions.... Please feel free to PM me. In the meantime, I'll be praying for that miracle. (( hugs ))
Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012
After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
((BFP 7/29/13)) ((EDD 4/12/14)) It's BOY/GIRL twins!!!
Miracles happen honey and we will be praying for yours. Hugs and T's and P's to you. Don't worry about what to do until you are there in the moment, because you won't know the outcome or your true feelings until then.
Huge huges hugs and lots of prayers.
BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w.
BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
BFP #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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I am so sorry for what you are going through. I wish you the very best and hope that you will be in the 1%.
Hugs,
Jenn
We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013. We love her to pieces.
We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011. She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.
Thinking of you. I REALLY hope you are the 1%.
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