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Any SIDS Mom's out there

tracydg33tracydg33 member
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Are there any SIDS mom's out there that want to chat.
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Re: Any SIDS Mom's out there

  • tracydg33tracydg33 member
    I lost my son when he was 3 months and 13 says old on March 18, 2007 I said goodbye to him I miss him so much everyday
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    There are two fresh SIDS mom. Sockmonkeysam is one and one that just lost her son last week.
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  • HeatherhahHeatherhah member

    My DD was stillborn at 38wk 4 day but I wanted to say that I am so sorry for you loss.

    Heather

    DS- Brenden born 11/13/93 Missed miscarriage on March 6, 2007 @ 9 weeks D&C on March 8th 2007. Riley Annalise born 2/25/08 ( 3 weeks early weighing 8 lbs 12.8 oz.) Chemical pregnancy 3/2010. Sydney Adriana born sleeping on 9/30/11 weighing 10lbs 3 oz at 38wks 4 days. Trinity Alivia born via c section at 36 wks 4 days weighing 9 lbs. 5.7 oz. She is our amazing rainbow baby!!! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers PGAL buddy drvst8
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  • tracydg33tracydg33 member
    I am new to the boards thank you so much for all the support. Heather I am so sorry for your loss it's a loss no matter what stage
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    I am not a SIDs mom but I wanted to say so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • Bread09Bread09 member
    I am also not a SIDS mom, but wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss.
    TTC #1 since 4/09
    2/21/11: IVF #1 Begins and results in TWINS!
    11/4/11: The twins are born at 36w4d!
    11/5/11: We said goodbye to our sweet baby girl as she was born with multiple complications and a severe heart defect, Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.
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  • tracydg33tracydg33 member
    Thank you so much everyone I have been reading the boards all day and OMG the things that we all have went through and are feeling I am so glad I am not alone in this and that my feelings are normal. I recently got married and my dh wants another child but I had my tubes tied after my last son (which if I knew then what I know now) i would have never had my tubes tied but no one expects to burry there baby.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member

    I am not a SIDS mom, but I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son.

    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • wmthorpe0815wmthorpe0815
    I am so sorry. It does feel good to know there is support around you besides the common T&P's messsages I keep getting from friends and family. I started just typing on a microsoft word anytime I need to just get it out. I made a difference. I figure I wanted to try to write a book anyways on my crazy life (even if I am the only one who ever reads it) I know I got it all out and didnt keep anything locked up. Right now I cant even figure out what I loved to do before this whole mess.
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  • pottermommypottermommy member

    There is another mom who is active on PAL but I am not sure if her first LO passed from SIDS but I do know it was after birth.  There are also several mama's on here that have lost LO in infancy, toddlerhood and childhood as well though not specifically SIDS related. 

    I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you can find comfort and friendship here. 

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  • pb127pb127 member
    I'm so sorry for the passing of your son. I'm also not a SIDS mom, but we are here to comfort and support you if you'd like to stay. The women here are very supportive and caring. (((hugs)))
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  • SockMonkeySamSockMonkeySam member

    Zachary was actually not SIDS.. it's been ruled an accidental death by Neglence. He sufficated on a fleece blanket on the bottom of the PNP. They said he was awake and crying, but she didn't hear him due to no monitor being hooked up. She also admitted to the police that he was fussy so she figured he'd be ok just crying while she got ready.

    But I will still talk to you.. I miss Z so much. And I just went to a funeral for a friend who lost her son at 5 months at SIDS


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  • tracydg33tracydg33 member
    Sockmonkeysam I am so sorry for you loss. I know we might be at different stages of grieveing but it's nice to have someone that can relate to what I am feeling and going through. I would love to get to know more people so we all can help each other in the process.
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  • Mjmksb04Mjmksb04 member
    Not a SIDS mom either, but so sorry for your losses Left Hug
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    DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
    DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    imageSockMonkeySam:

    Zachary was actually not SIDS.. it's been ruled an accidental death by Neglence. He sufficated on a fleece blanket on the bottom of the PNP. They said he was awake and crying, but she didn't hear him due to no monitor being hooked up. She also admitted to the police that he was fussy so she figured he'd be ok just crying while she got ready.

    But I will still talk to you.. I miss Z so much. And I just went to a funeral for a friend who lost her son at 5 months at SIDS

    Oh sweetie, I had no idea. Can I please go beat the *** out of her? 

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  • tracydg33tracydg33 member
    I agree with Magdalina on this when I read your story I was in shock and I am so so sorry
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  • MrsSonny24MrsSonny24
    I'm a SIDS mom.  My little guys passed away on February 13th, so it's very fresh.  He was our first and only baby and my heart is completely shattered.  He was the happiest baby and full of personality, he was 5 months 13 days old when he passed.  Super healthy never did I imagine this nightmare or that the love of our lives would be taken so soon.  I'd love to chat more!
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