MIL details for Rach :)

PMBridetobe · February 2012

Well, it currently feels like I live alone since as soon as our nanny left, they went to bed. Hmm

Anyway, it all started 3 years ago when she called me and DH rude for not leaving Sea Worlds Cabana's immediately at 7pm. She packed all our stuff and then threw some stuff at our youngest SD. I told DH to get it under control because I was not ready to leave and then the entire ride back to Austin I heard about what an aweful person I was. Then the next year, she started feeding my family at 5pm when I was still at work/communiting. It was so nice to come home to everyone fed and all the dishes put up, NOT. I totally get she has to eat at 5 when in my home (she doesnt at her home). But to feed my entire family? We had several clashes like this where she tried to assert her superiority over my house/family. Sorry, I pay the bills, I live here, there needs to be mutual respect.

She has told all DH's side of the family that she had to come to Texas to take care of the kids. Not true, we asked her to come to spend time with her grandchildren. When here, we paid for her hotel rooms, meals, vacations, season passes, etc. She complained that she felt like the nanny since we paid for everything when I got on to my stepson for not putting the dishes away (his chore) but she had done it (no one told me).

Let's see what else there is - Oh, telling a complete stranger when they asked if twins ran in the family, that Yes, they do but these were artificial and then went through my complete IVF experience. I get that she was "proud" of me but I didnt think it was here place to share my stuff with complete stranger at my childrens party. When confronted on it, she threw a huge fit that I just needed to get over it because she was proud of me.

She has told my DH that I am rude, I think I am better than everyone else, I use money to buy love, etc. She comes to my house and hides in the guest bedroom for hours a day or basically whenever I am home. You may remember that at Christmas time she accused me of sending her porn because I sent her a Harlequin romance movie.

Anyway, that sums it up for the most part. And, to top it all off - they arrived last night, she said hello and then sat on the couch (fine!). We got her bed made, etc and then I went to sit on the couch, she got up as soon as my butt hit the seat and then went upsstairs to request that my hubby bring her a table for the computer. This morning she couldnt smile at me when I said hello and then yelled at DH because I deliberatly didnt give the kiddos V-Day chocolate (they dont eat chocolate). Anyway, she gave it to them for breakfast - one almost choked on it and the other spit it out.

She doesnt like me and wont do anything with the kiddos if I am involved. We have music class Sat, I invited her. She has to check in to thier resort so she cant come. Really?

There it is. I may DD this later as I never know who is lurking.

userdeleted · February 2012

YES. I've been waiting patiently...

Also, holy crap. That woman is lucky she's allowed in your sight!

angelaggie · February 2012

Do I need to come over? A very uncomfortable big pregnant woman likes to tell people off. Just saying. And I'm an Aries who hasn't had a good argument in months!

PMBridetobe · February 2012

angelaggie:
Do I need to come over? A very uncomfortable big pregnant woman likes to tell people off. Just saying. And I'm an Aries who hasn't had a good argument in months!

I tried that as a new mom who just delivered, didnt work, she came back! Thanks for the offer. I am thinking of going to the garage and getting a shiner. That might send her packing as well.