We've just starting thinking about this seriously this week -- after getting the message that we may be headed down the IVF path far earlier than expected.
That said, we're seriously debating going forward with their shared risk program -- not because we think it really makes financial sense (the odds obviously play out on the RE's favor, or they would never offer the program), but for us, I think that extra cost and the assurance that we either have a live birth or get a 70% refund when all is said and done (the program covers 3 Fresh rounds + 3 FET if we have anything to freeze over the course of 24 months)...is seeming like more than worth the extra $$ at this point.
It's crazy for me to think this -- heck, I'm essentially a statistician for a living, and this goes against all of my better judgement, but I think we both know that IVF is a going to be a difficult enough experience, that if we just put the additional $$ up front, we might go in with a better mindset. And, "worst case," if we are successful on the first go, I'm pretty sure neither of us will regret the extra money we put up to begin with -- sure it's a significant amount, but in the grand scheme of things, not that significant at all.
Any thoughts/experiences with this as you all have gone through the IVF process?
Re: Thoughts on IVF Shared Risk?
We are currently saving for it now. We will need $26,000 for the program, which includes the following:
If we do not have a live birth, we get 100% back. For me, the question was is one successful IVF cycle worth $26,000 for me. And for us, the answer is a resounding yes. Considering that $13-15,000 is the average rate for IVF with meds per cycle in my area, the shared risk just makes sense for us.
If we do not have success with 6 IVF's and how every many FET's we get, we will take the refund and use it toward adoption. So this also gives me the comfort that we won't just be throwing away money. For us, it's totally the best option.
HOWEVER, our clinic requires that the female be under the age of 37.5 before the first cycle, cannot have any known ovarian reserve issues, and cannot have had any prior IVF's. So we need to know upfront that this is what we will do.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
Thanks -- the program does not include meds, but we have some pretty solid insurance coverage for meds (which has made our first injects cycle very affordable). And, we have some level of monitoring coverage in terms of u/s, etc -- so not sure how/if that would factor in when all is said and done. Lots to consider, for sure!
I have not yet gone down the IVF road, but DH and I have been having some serious talks about it in the past few weeks. My office does not have a shared risk program, but I just wanted to warn you about insurance. I am lucky enough to have amazing insurance and only have a small co-pay for my injects and no copays for u/s, that being said, my insurance does not cover any u/s or meds for IVF cycles. My insurance does not cover anything at all for IVF, anything that is coded for IVF is not covered. So please be sure to check with you insurance first.
8 IUIs - 3 Cancelled cycles - 1 Ectopic Pregnancy with Left tube removal = A broken heart
IVF #1 : Fall 2012
15R - 13M - 13F w/ICSI - Transferred 2 day 5 blasts = BFP!!!
8 Frosties!
Beta #1: 135, Beta #2: 312, Beta #3: 996
10/21: Saw one beautiful flickering heartbeat! EDD: 6/12/13
?S/PAIFW?
Yes, if IVF is not covered, the meds for it are also not covered for the majority of insurance plans. I actually just called mine to ask about this. ANYTHING related to IVF is a non-covered service.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
This is me. My insurance will cover cycles/meds for iui, but absolutely nothing for IVF...I am now in the process of getting the needed meds either by donation on here/from friends/or having to buy them now we are going forth with IFV. It sucks!
As for the Shared Risk; we are still contemplating this. We are speaking with the financial counselor tomorrow & will have to make a decision at some point soon. Our RE gave us a 70% chance of success on our 1st shot, but I am more worried about c/p; miscarriages, etc. I really don't know what is the right thing to do. I am hoping we will have a lot of eggs & then have some to freeze just in case but it is def a risk. GL in your decision.
04/07/11- PCOS Diagnosis w/GYN. Put on Metformin (1500 mgs)
04/25/11- 1st consultation with RE (Confirmed PCOS & Anovulation)
05/09/11-HSG-All clear! 05/13/11-SA-Normal. Found out on 2/14/12, low Morph (1%).
06/17/11-10 days of Clomid (100, 150) No response.
07/10/11-03/20/12- 5 Injectable (Follistim) IUI cycles; 4 BFN, 1 C/P. (stims ranged from 11 days to 25 days)
05/28/12-Diagnosed with Hypothyroidism. 75 mcg Synthroid.
IVF with ICSI in June/July 2013 = BFP!. Beta # 1 = 123. Beta # 2 = 252. Due March 25th. Baby boy arrived March 27, 2013!
FET #1 - 10/4/14 = BFP!! Beta #1 = 179. Beta # 2 = 499. Due June 22nd.

I was a stellar candidate for IVF (young, nothing wrong with me, MFI diagnosis) and was given a 65% chance of success. To be safe, we paid extra money for a refund plan that included all FETs for a year.
My IVF cycle went disastrously and we ended up with no frosties. We at least have money to pay for IVF #2 because of the refund, but I wish we'd paid a bit more for the plan that included multiple IVF cycles. Of course, it didn't "make sense" for us -- with an AFC of 20+, and 34 eggs retrieved, who would have believed we wouldn't end up with extra embies for FETs? But we did.
So now I'm a huge believer in shared risk and refund programs, because you never know. And one thing I didn't realize is that once you have a failed IVF behind you, you no longer qualify for any reasonable sort of plan. At this point I'm screwed, and unless I want to shell out $40K for a three-cycle, 70%-refund, no-meds-included plan, which barely saves me money unless everything fails, I will have to pay completely OOP for individual cycles.
Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.
IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.
Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.
Hope is the thing with feathers - that perches in the soul - and sings the tune without the words - and never stops - at all - (Emily Dickinson)
04/07/11- PCOS Diagnosis w/GYN. Put on Metformin (1500 mgs)
04/25/11- 1st consultation with RE (Confirmed PCOS & Anovulation)
05/09/11-HSG-All clear! 05/13/11-SA-Normal. Found out on 2/14/12, low Morph (1%).
06/17/11-10 days of Clomid (100, 150) No response.
07/10/11-03/20/12- 5 Injectable (Follistim) IUI cycles; 4 BFN, 1 C/P. (stims ranged from 11 days to 25 days)
05/28/12-Diagnosed with Hypothyroidism. 75 mcg Synthroid.
IVF with ICSI in June/July 2013 = BFP!. Beta # 1 = 123. Beta # 2 = 252. Due March 25th. Baby boy arrived March 27, 2013!
FET #1 - 10/4/14 = BFP!! Beta #1 = 179. Beta # 2 = 499. Due June 22nd.

thoughts from a lurker:
We invested in the shared risk, 3 IVF, 3 FET. We are half way into at this point (used 2 IVF, 1 FET). We were given a high chance of success with round one, but after each round, we kept discovering more and more things. Having the shared risk for us has been a blessing because we couldn't have afforded multiple treatments.
If you are thinking of just doing one, then I would suggest you have EVERYTHING checked out before you start. (We discovered endo after the fact, we discovered poor egg quality after the fact) I would do everything you can to maximize that one try. Hindsight is 20/20 and I wish I would have had someone tell me that.
Wickedly nice Step Mom to JJ since 5/2/09
Born 7/26/01-- Adopted 3/6/02
Two and a Half Years, Too Many Treatments, One Precious Miracle
Abby born 11/5/12
TTC since 2010
lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs
FET currently on hold
I personally would not do a shared risk program. They're just too d@mn expensive. If the shared risk costs more than two IVF cycles alone, then it's not worth it in my eyes.
Personally, I would be more upset if I paid so much for a shared risk program and the first IVF worked, than if I didn't and the first one didn't work. They're out to make money and only a minority benefit from them.
Dx: PCOS and MFI
3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573
1st u/s=TWINS!
It's a Boy and a Girl!
Born at 34w3d!
Come Jan we'll be doing the shard risk IVF program as well.