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Sunday Visits

DHYGchica3DHYGchica3
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I finally let STBXH have all of Sunday (supervised with his parents/grandmother) with DS, and he only asks for 2 hours! This is his second Sunday and I asked him why only 2 hours and he came back and said fine 3 hours. He was the one claiming I didn't give him enough time, and that I was keeping DS from him. Truth be told when he actually has to care for him, it's not that much fun for him.
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  • DHYGchica3DHYGchica3
    UGH! I gave STBXH clear instructions on DS's routine and when to feed and diaper him. He said that his diaper wasn't "that bad" and he figured I'd have to change him before bed anyways... so he didn't bother. And that DS didn't want his bottle. He didn't even attempt to make one for the kid, all the bottles and water I premeasured were still in the bag. And DS was a screaming mess for a bottle by the time we got home. He pisses me off so bad sometimes.
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  • KtGirl88KtGirl88

    imageDHYGchica3:
    UGH! I gave STBXH clear instructions on DS's routine and when to feed and diaper him. He said that his diaper wasn't "that bad" and he figured I'd have to change him before bed anyways... so he didn't bother. And that DS didn't want his bottle. He didn't even attempt to make one for the kid, all the bottles and water I premeasured were still in the bag. And DS was a screaming mess for a bottle by the time we got home. He pisses me off so bad sometimes.

     

    Ugh men are just nuts! I can't believe he's asking for more time and then all he wants is two hours??!!! Im really scared S will do the same thing when he gets Marina. He never remembers to change her diaper and if she pushes the bottle away (which she will do at first) he says "oh she's not hungry" and doesn't try again. I really hope things turn around and he starts doing better! I guess its kinda a good thing he doesn't want a lot of time with her if he is going to be like that. 

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  • FyreFlyeRushFyreFlyeRush member
    Boys really are stupid.
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  • DHYGchica3DHYGchica3
    imagetifanico:

    Document and I would also take pictures of the diapers and bottles at pick up and drop off. 

    Poor little guy! 

    All my texts get forwarded to email so I texted him asking why he didn't do either things, and all he said was "I'm new to all this!"

    OMG, give me a break. We separated just after DS was 4 mos old so I don't believe that crap.

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  • BeachBum1223BeachBum1223
    Document for sure!  My ex did the SAME thing - wouldn't feed DD or change diapers.  Ridiculous, they should be ashamed of themselves!
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