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SockMonkeySamSockMonkeySam member
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Hi I have not been around to support you and I feel bad. I acutally just got home from Michigan to support the September Sweet Pea who lost her beautiful Easton.

It was like reliving everything all over again, the pain, the anger tha saddness. I was lucky to have another beautiful September Momma meet me and hold me up when I burst into tears during the service. Out of nowhere the song "You are my sunshine" just threw me over the edge.

But I'm hoping even if I was there for less than 24 hours I made some sort of comfort to her.

But I hope everyone is doing good. I need to catch up on the board.

 


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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    We missed you for sure. I saw the posts on Facebook about you being such an amazing support for the fellow board mother. Big hugs to you.
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  • ally2011ally2011 member

    What a wonderful gesture.  I am thinking it meant the world to her to have you there.  I know that must have been incredibly difficult for you to even go (at any time, but especially so soon after your own heartbreak) and I think it speaks volumes about your character that you went anyway.  I think of you and pray for you several times a week.  Your sweet Zachary is missed by many who never even met him.

    Hugs,
    Jenn 

    We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013.  We love her to pieces.  

    We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011.  She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.


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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member
    Lady, you were missed, but I have been wanting to support you! ((big hugs)) you are an AMAZING woman and mother.  We are all so happy to see your beautiful face.
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    I know you were a comfort to her. I think you're amazing.
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  • LuckEinLuvLuckEinLuv member
    Do not apologize for not being here. We want to support you!  I am so in awe of how wonderful a support you are to your fellow September mom even when your own grief is still so raw. {{HuGS}}
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  • CaroleeCarolee member

    You don't need to feel bad about not being here.  You must have been a wonderful support to that mother.  I am sure it brought back a lot of memories for you, but it was an amazing gesture for you to go for her. 

    (((HUGS)))

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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    No apologies needed, but its good to see you back. (( hugs ))
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  • mrssopranomrssoprano member

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    Do not apologize for not being here. We want to support you!  I am so in awe of how wonderful a support you are to your fellow September mom even when your own grief is still so raw. {{HuGS}}

    All of this. (((Hugs))) SMS.

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    That's an AMAZING thing that you did! You should be very proud of yourself, especially since your own loss is still so raw. We have missed you, but it's okay that you took some time off. I hoped that maybe you were lurking & getting some support that way. Happy to see your face SMS! Big Smile
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    *hugs*  You are an amazing woman.  We all miss you when you're not around.
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    You are a great friend to show support to her even when you're grieving. No need to apologize. 
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  • Gizu92708Gizu92708 member
    You are a wonderful person. What a nice gesture for you to go support her while your loss is still so raw and recent. Hugs to you and no need to apologize.
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  • MandynStephenMandynStephen member
    Wow, how nice of you.  I am sure your presence and understanding was very comforting for her!
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  • samakasrcsamakasrc member
    Wow, thats amazing that you did that for her!  What an incredible thing to do for a fellow board member!!!  
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  • StephK86StephK86
    I'm so proud of you Amye. That is so beautiful that you went to support someone so closely to your own loss. I am sure she appreciated it so much and was glad someone who understood was there.
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