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FB fail

weddedwifeweddedwife member
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This is bugging me and I need to let it out because I know you ladies will understand. I went onto fb today & had to log out of my husband's profile before I could log onto mine. I have blocked all the people I know with newborns but he hasn't. There is one friend whose baby was born (healthy and alive) 10 days after Nathaniel, and before I could log out of his profile her status caught my eye up on the top of his news feed.

It said, "How are you supposed to take care of a baby and be sick at the same time? I am miserably sick. I feel bad for me." Then, a few comments down she says, "Ok Who wants my baby??? Anybody? Oh, she's getting sick, too. So even more good times ahead. Thanks for the sympathy. Since she doesn't know what I'm saying, it's nice to complain to FB at least :)"

I know she doesn't mean any hurt by it. But how could you say that?? I really wish I hadn't seen it. It makes me so sad.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    That would bother me too.  I'd gladly take a sick baby right now.  I'm sorry you had to see that.
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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    I'm soooo tempted to reply "_____, I would happily take your baby. Count your blessings." Not sure that's a good idea though- someone talk me down!
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  • Gizu92708Gizu92708 member
    Ugh I'm sorry. I would totally take her sick baby anytime.
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  • littlepenguin2012littlepenguin2012 member

    imageweddedwife:
    I'm soooo tempted to reply "_____, I would happily take your baby. Count your blessings." Not sure that's a good idea though- someone talk me down!

     

    This! 

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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    I hate when people talk like that. They don't realize how good they have it. Big hugs. Sorry you saw that.
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  • HeatherhahHeatherhah member
    Wow I would be upset too. I can't dealwith people who are pregnant and they complain about how sick they are or they are miserable I would gladly give anything to be pregnant again and feel my baby girl kicking me while she was alive. I would take any baby sick or not. I would rather be up all night and tired then have to deal with not having my DD her with us. Hugs to you some people SUCK!!
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  • MandynStephenMandynStephen member
    Attempt to "talk you down".  It honestly would not make you feel any better to blow her out as tempting as that may be.  I do not blame you at all for wanting to though.  Wish that we were all as oblivious about losing a baby as some people get to be!
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  • pb127pb127 member
    oh man Sad ((HUGS))
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