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Text message from Dad

I sent my Dad a text message this morning to say Happy Valentine's Day.  He sent me the sweetest text back and I almost started balling at my desk.  "Thanks for the message from cupid.  You are always in my heart."  I know it probably doesn't sound like much, but my Dad is not an overly emotional guy and maybe I am just an emotional wreck.
3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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Re: Text message from Dad

  • That is so sweet! I hope you had a great valentines day. 
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    That is so sweet! I hope you had a great valentines day. 
    Tonight consisted of pizza and filing my tax return....romantic, huh?
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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  • Aww that was really sweet of him!
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    Started TTC our first since May 2010
    1st BFP: 8/18/2011.....EDD 4/25/2012
    2nd BFP: 8/19/2012....EDD 4/26/2013

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  • Aw! I know exactly what you mean. About five years ago when I was still living at home and working full time. My dad had slipped a note into my coat pocket before I left that morning that said: "I love you. Just keep being you. -Dad" My dad us just like yours. I can probably count on my left hand how many times he's hugged me even, not that he doesn't love me... he just shows his love in a much different way.
  • Love!
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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  • Oh, man. That would have done me in, too. 
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • What a sweet dad!!
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  • That is so sweet!

    How are you holding up hon?  I've been thinking about you.  ::HUGS:: 


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  • So sweet of him! My dad called me today to wish me a happy Valentines Day too, which is odd because he really never calls me. It was nice, there must be something is the air!
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    That is so sweet!

    How are you holding up hon?  I've been thinking about you.  ::HUGS:: 

    Eh...I sway between denial and acceptance. It went from 100 back up to 111, but I am bleeding more so we will see what tomorrow brings. My arms are black and blue from being poked. I decided I want to wait till Friday to get the mtx so that I can just veg at home for a couple days, but am praying so hard that it goes down on its own.
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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  • That's really sweet.  Daughters and Daddy's have a special bond.  I see the way my DD looks at DH...complete adoration.  
    BFP #1 - Chemical Pregnancy ----BFP#2 - DD born at 32 weeks-----BFP #3 Spontaneous Identical Twin Boys lost due to Missed M/C - on 7/1/11----BFP #4 Baby girl lost due to Trisomy 22 on 1/6/12 PGAL and PAL Always Welcome! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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    imagebuckeyebaby814:

    That is so sweet!

    How are you holding up hon?  I've been thinking about you.  ::HUGS:: 

    Eh...I sway between denial and acceptance. It went from 100 back up to 111, but I am bleeding more so we will see what tomorrow brings. My arms are black and blue from being poked. I decided I want to wait till Friday to get the mtx so that I can just veg at home for a couple days, but am praying so hard that it goes down on its own.

    I'm sorry to hear that your hCG isn't cooperating.  Hopefully it starts going back down and continues that way. 


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  • so sweet
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  • That really is precious.  My dad is the same way - not at all emotional - and after my m/c he was so supportive.  He sent me a text every couple days just to tell me he was thinking of me.  I'll cherish those messages forever.  Glad he was able to help you smile.
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  • Awww, makes me tear up. I am glad you got a sweet text from your Pops.

    My Dad left me a msg on my cell the day I found out we were having a 2nd mc. I have kept it, but man, the thing makes me cry but is so sweet. There is a little catch in his voice...

    BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework

    BFP #2- 9/11/11 ~EDD 5/25/12 ~M/C (mmc10w)11/4/11 @ 11wks ~Missing my May Flower

    BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12  Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012

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  • Aww, that is so very sweet.
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    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
    BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012

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  • Dad's are the best! My dad is like yours in the fact that he doesn't show a lot of emotion, and its out of charachter to say such nice things.  When I called him to tell him what happened to me he was the one who said the best thing ever to me "Don't let this break your spirit" It was perfect.

    So, don't let this break your spirit and keep trying for your take home baby!

    Lots of hugs!!

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    BFP#1 10/21/11 EDD 06/22/12 natural m/c 11/03/11 6w6d

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