I love both Jasper and Asher, but I think Jasper stands out more so it got my vote. I am not familiar with Bonham, but my initial reaction is that I don't care for it.
I voted Jasper but I don't like any of these. Asher is too trendy to me and Bonham is a LN that sounds like "bone him" or "bone em" ... which is bad. Dislike that one A LOT.
that is where we got the name from john Bonham. We think its very original and no one else will have it. Well except for john, Jason, Helena and debra. John is SO idol since he is a drummer also. I also know someone with the middle name Bonham. I like it and thats what all matters
Re: Boy name
I voted Jasper but I don't like any of these. Asher is too trendy to me and Bonham is a LN that sounds like "bone him" or "bone em" ... which is bad. Dislike that one A LOT.
Jasper is the best out of your choices, IMO.
I love Jasper, but haven't been able to get husband on board. Bonham makes me think you are naming him after John Bonham from Led Zepplin.