Being a preemie mom has taught me about the goodness in others (from family to nurses who have really stepped in during this difficult time), patience, and gratitude that our situtation is easy compared to others.
Sorry...having problems posting. What I meant to say was that I agreed with those above. It has taught me to be thankful for every minute I have with my LO.
To trust my Mommy instinct and pay attention what my LO is telling me!
So often 'traditional' baby data, time frames, etc don't apply to our little peanuts. I think that preemie Moms have an acute sense of what it right and normal for our LO's and for what they need.
Also, it has taught me NEVER to take a carefree pregnancy for granted. I floated along for almost 28 weeks with just a little bump or two. I didn't gain much weight and, aside from some nasty m/s, everything seemed blissfully normal. Boy do you realize how much you take that for granted when things change so quickly!
Don't get me wrong, everyone has the right to complain about the normal pregnancy woes - being tired, sick, etc. But sometimes I just wish my friends who have normal, complication free, full term pregnancies realized how lucky they are!
To be thankful for every single milestone and accomplishment, and to remember that every kid hits these milestones on their own schedule, regardless of their actual age.
that I am stronger than I thought I was, especially being a loving and giving mother.
I went to the hospital every day that my baby was in the hospital, and he was in the hospital for 35 days.
BFP on 07/18/08. Miscarriage 07/30/08. BFP 3/25/09. Confirmed second miscarriage, no heartbeat, no growth beyond 7 weeks, 5/19/09. TTC again, on baby aspirin, due to value of 23 on Anticardiolipin Antibodies. BFP 11/15/09. Brown spotting, Beta 3735 11/25/09, Beta 5602 11/28/09. Anticardiolipin Antibodies now negative, still on baby asprin. On 100 mg of Prometrium (progesterone) until 10 weeks. Good heartbeat at 1st appt. 12/16/09. Started taking fish oil. Perigestational hemorrhage and red bleeding 12/17/09. 2nd Ultrasound-8 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/17/09. Baby measured 9 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/23/09. Good NT Scan on 1/8/10, heartbeat 164. EDD 7/28/10. TEAM BLUE! Aidan Thomas born on May 26, 2010.
Baby #2, BFP 11/27/11, EDD 6/5/12. TEAM PINK! Noelle Elizabeth born 4/30/12.
Blessing from God, Blessing from God, Blessing from God, Blessing from God.
To not take life for grantite. Also to do what LO ped and I feel is best and not listen to others who have no idea what it is like to have a baby premature. Also how blessed I am to have my child in my life. He is amazing and such a wonderful gift from God.
Being a Preemie Mom has taught me that I am a strong woman; that I can change the world (for my kids); that I have everything I need to make it thru this stage; that trust (her trust in me) is everything I need to keep me going.
Being a Preemie Mom has taught me to lean on my DH and God.
Re: Being a preemie mom has taught me _____
THIS.
compassion.
I have so much more empathy for stressful and difficult things that others may be going through - no matter if they are preemie related or not.
Being a preemie mom has taught me about the goodness in others (from family to nurses who have really stepped in during this difficult time), patience, and gratitude that our situtation is easy compared to others.
To trust my Mommy instinct and pay attention what my LO is telling me!
So often 'traditional' baby data, time frames, etc don't apply to our little peanuts. I think that preemie Moms have an acute sense of what it right and normal for our LO's and for what they need.
Also, it has taught me NEVER to take a carefree pregnancy for granted. I floated along for almost 28 weeks with just a little bump or two. I didn't gain much weight and, aside from some nasty m/s, everything seemed blissfully normal. Boy do you realize how much you take that for granted when things change so quickly!
Don't get me wrong, everyone has the right to complain about the normal pregnancy woes - being tired, sick, etc. But sometimes I just wish my friends who have normal, complication free, full term pregnancies realized how lucky they are!
not to take anything for granted.
that my husband truly is my best friend, soul mate, and biggest cheerleader.
that God has a plan and even if we don't understand it, we have to believe in it.
patience, patience, patience.
that I am stronger than I thought I was, especially being a loving and giving mother.
I went to the hospital every day that my baby was in the hospital, and he was in the hospital for 35 days.
Being a preemie mom has taught me:
1. To always go with my gut feeling and not to let anyone make me feel stupid when I feel like something is wrong.
2. That I can only do the best I can do.
3. To be thankful for every second of a healthly, full term pregnancy if I get ever get pregnant again
You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have
Being a Preemie Mom has taught me that I am a strong woman; that I can change the world (for my kids); that I have everything I need to make it thru this stage; that trust (her trust in me) is everything I need to keep me going.
Being a Preemie Mom has taught me to lean on my DH and God.
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