BD Vent!!

Marksmommy321

So a couple days ago I posted about my sons father having his 3rd baby. Well tonight he decides to scream and yell at me because I told him I found out about her being pregnant on her FB.( I dont understand why it matter anyways the dumb bimbo has it plastered all over. I dont lie so I told him the truth) Now the only reason I even go on her FB is because I want to make sure she doesnt have any pictures of my son up ( I know even if she does theres probably nothing i could do about it but its still the point) Honestly I think this is maybe the 2nd time I even looked. Anyways he tells me that I need to find a hobby other then "stalking" his "girl's" FB. And what they do is their business. So me being the smarta$$ that I am told him that I do have a hobby its called being a mom. He seriously tells me that being a mom is a "responsibility" not a hobby. I wanted to tell him to take his own advice and take responsibility for his son. And all I even said to him was Oh I heard your girlfriend was pregnant. Congrats! AND THATS IT!!! Oh and that he can't stand liars. Yea me either buddy thats why we arn't together anymore. I swear even when I try to be civil/nice with him I'm somehow the f**king bad guy.

Marksmommy321

I know you are very right. But in all honesty I was just trying to be nice. Im working on getting CS now so hopefully in the next few weeks/months that will all be settled. But you are 100% right I should have left it alone.

achase123

Marksmommy321:

I know you are very right. But in all honesty I was just trying to be nice. Im working on getting CS now so hopefully in the next few weeks/months that will all be settled. But you are 100% right I should have left it alone.

What Tifanico said.  And remember, nice gets you screwed.  NO contact that isn't necessary, period.  It will save you a lot of grief.

Marksmommy321

I know. I just want us to atleast try and be civil for my sons sake so i thought well maybe if i just say hey congrats it will be nice and wont start a fight. I was so wrong. But now Im done trying to be civil nice and im not going to even say a word to him about anything unless it has to do with mt son.

Marksmommy321

I really try and be civil with him he refuses to be civil with me. co-parenting is so hard especially when he barely helps. Im with my son 24/7 hes with him maybe 2-3 times a month. so when I tell him about my sons daily routine he gets all pissy and refuses to do it. so it throws my son completly off and then I have to start all over. its so aggravating.