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Wtf!!!!
So my X/SO was supposed to come visit with our daughter tomorrow and he calls me tonight to say he cant make it tomorrow and he'll come Friday instead. Wanna know why he isnt coming? Because he's going to be washing his clothes!!!! Are you fu#$king kidding me? Your clothes?!!! So glad to know where your priorities lie. You had seven days to choose from to wash and you choose that day. How nice he decides to change to a day where I have something going on. As much as I want to be a *** and tell him keep his ass at home I wont because he only sees her once a week as is and I want her to spend time with him but seriously dude? This is the sort of tomfoolery that gets under my skin ughhhh!!!!
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Re: Wtf!!!!
1) I highly doubt he's actually washing his clothes
2) You need to learn how to let the "reason" why he's not seeing his DD get under your skin. It's his loss. Don't stress over things you do not have control over.
3) Do not change your plans to meet his demands. You're setting a precedent for times to come
4) Do you have CO for visitation in place? If not, you don't have to agree to anything.
I doubt it too even if he was how is that an all day task? I dont have a CO yet my hearing is set for March 20th. Im really trying not to let it get to me, it just frustrates me.
Document, document, document.
Get a paper calendar and write down every visit he is supposed to have. Write down when he arrives and when he departs. Write down if he cancels and why. Or print out the email or text message where he states that he isn't coming and why. Show the pattern in his behavior.