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Kind of IF related: taxes

We got about $5k back last year which was nice since we needed to buy a new car & had to manke an emergency trip to India.  This year, we are getting barely $1k back because DH somehow managed to claim wrongly (1 vs. 0) on his 1099.  I was kind of banking on the refund to be our co-pay if we need IVF #2.  IVF #1 was about $3k OOP, which is about a month's pay for me (ugh!).  I mean, we can certainly tweak our budget & make it work somehow but I could've killed DH! 
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Re: Kind of IF related: taxes

  • I hope IVF #1 works and you don't need to worry about that.   Big Smile

    And not to step on my accountant soapbox, but I don't like big refunds or big liabilities... I like to be approx even when it comes tax time.  I don't want the govt having my money all year when I could be saving it with interest.... granted that is much smaller these days than it used to be, but is more than zero %.

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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    I hope IVF #1 works and you don't need to worry about that.   Big Smile

    And not to step on my accountant soapbox, but I don't like big refunds or big liabilities... I like to be approx even when it comes tax time.  I don't want the govt having my money all year when I could be saving it with interest.... granted that is much smaller these days than it used to be, but is more than zero %.

    My dad is a former accountant (he now works @ a hospital in "risk mgmt"; he's basically the guy who decides what the hospital pays when a doctor effs up) & he always tells me the same thing, lol!  I just like having "surprise" $ I guess.  Hopefully I'll have my own little tax deduction next year.

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  • I'm with you Anasara, I love getting "extra" $ back!

     

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    Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
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    FET #1 April 2011= BFN
    FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
    FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138 Pregnancy Ticker
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  • We wont get back as much this year as we did last year, but I'm still looking forward to getting the "extra" money. I know that we should work it out to get as little as possible back, but I think that if we had the money on had we would spend it and not save it.
    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
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  • imageillinigal:

    I hope IVF #1 works and you don't need to worry about that.   Big Smile

    And not to step on my accountant soapbox, but I don't like big refunds or big liabilities... I like to be approx even when it comes tax time.  I don't want the govt having my money all year when I could be saving it with interest.... granted that is much smaller these days than it used to be, but is more than zero %.

    My DH says the same thing..." we aren't giving the government anymore of our money".  We owe every yr, but that's bc of DH's business.

    A- hope it is a total mute point.

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  • I agree that I like money, but I usually owed money since my mom did my taxes and she was the same way. Now DH and I always owe what seems to be way more money, which I hate, but DH likes the fact we get the money longer.

    Lots of luck that you don't have to worry about the next IVF.

    PAIF and SAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC since 2007
    6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
    IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
    IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
    Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
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  • Sorry you won't be getting the refund you expected, that really sucks. 

    I hope you don't have to worry about it (all FX for TLR) and I usually don't advocate borrowing $ (or big refunds), but if you need to cycle again, know that when (not if) you have a LO, between the child deduction and credit (and med exp ded, if you qualify), you should be getting a nice fat refund again.  We always owe a lot every year, but this year for the first time ever we got a surprising amount back.  The tax code is very unfairly skewed for the fertile...

    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

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