I offered to get an elective ultrasound so SD can seehear Alien. He hasn't seen him since a blob of cells at 6w. He agreed. Maybe now things will seem real to him when he sees that perfectly formed human wiggling around on the screen.
Experience tells me it takes a long time to reach civility when people are dealing with hurt. He was the girl in our relationship, and he is still fuming about the break up, striking out and lashing out where he thinks it will hurt me most. Hormones have me fuming over money issues, paternity testing and the stupid comments he made.
I just can't help but hope that may this starts a turning part and he comes to terms with what is coming. Wish us luck!