Just need to vent....

boymomstrong

So I HATE the ship my hubby is on.... They do the most crazy things ever, and the CO is beyond a micromanager. They wont let my hubby apply for the blue to green program because it means he would be leaving in December of this year, instead of march next year, and the CO (who wont even be here after June) does not want the billet gapped. My hubby is coming up on needing an age waver as he has been in 12 years. They have an inspection coming up that's not even official, but his "CHANG" is having all of engineering come in every night (after working a full day) from 5p-10p for the MONTH of Feb and half of March to get ready for this inspection, that's not even and official inspection. My hubby tried to put in the request to let his ship know he was going to need to be off in August for the birth of our baby, and the ship denies the request saying they may be surging then, and cant guarantee any thing. (Duah I know this already, but approve now and then deny later, STUPID ship) Oh yes did I mention this CO will not even be here after JUNE???? I am just getting more frustrated! There is so much more than even this, and this is the worst ship he has ever been on, and he has been on 4 total. Including a Pre-Com! And I am hormonal and emotional, and I understand this, so I just want to close out with.... STUPID SHIP!!!!!

iluvmytxrgr

Stop. Breathe.

Gismo123

Welcome to the needs of the Navy! This is what you have to go through as a Military spouse. To be honest it doesn't sound too bad. When I was on a ship I had a friend who missed the birth of all 3 of his kids because of the needs of the Navy. Yes it sucks but thats what you signed up for when you married your DH.

MrsOjoButtons

iluvmytxrgr:

Stop. Breathe.

Repeat.

BLT20051

MrsOjoButtons:

iluvmytxrgr:

Stop. Breathe.

Repeat.

One more time.