Her head ultrasound will be
Saturday, but we may not get the results until Sunday or Monday. It
doesn't really matter, since there isn't much to be done if she does
have bleeding at this time. If she does, she may or may not need
surgeries, etc. However, we're not going to worry about that until we
have the info. Part of her right lung collapsed, which isn't great, but
it isn't as serious as it could be. They are having her lay on her left
side to help with that (no chest tube or anything). The 2nd xray done last night showed an improvement,
and hopefully it will be better, if not completely gone by this morning when they do another Xray.
The fact that she has this, and her oxygenation and breathing are still
good with low vent settings, is really wonderful. She also had a blood transfusion on her 2nd
day of life, but again, that is normal for a micro-preemie, which is
what she is.
She is past 72 hours and so far things have been better than expected. If this was the "honeymoon period"
that preemies get, it would be over by now and more interventions would
be needed. Luckily, the neonatologists, the nurses, and the
respiratory team all say that she is doing really well for her
gestational age. They are pleased with her progress so far. We've
still got a LONG way to go, and we've been told that life in the NICU
will have wonderful days and not-so-wonderful days. It will be a roller
coaster of rides, and the best thing to do is to enjoy the good days
and not focus on the bad days.
I now live my life around her "Hands On" time, which is every 6 hours, at 8a, 2p, 8p, and 2a. It is a truly emotional experience that, although limited, we still get to do what every new parent of a newborn gets to do, which is to change their diaper, wipe their eyes, and soothe them when they get fussy. Last night I changed my first poopy diaper, and I got some poop on my hand! I said "It makes me feel like a mom, since I got poop on my finger!" It really helps us deal and cope with this very stressful event that is occurring in our lives!
I'm not sure if I posted it here or on another board, but the day
before yesterday, one of the neonatologist taught us how to soothe her.
We had been talking and her heart rate was elevated and she was
fidgeting around (arms and legs kicking, etc). She had me cup her head
and her feet (so that she could push up against my feet) and my husband
put his hand over her midsection and arm. We spoke to her softly and
did this, and within a minute or 2, her heart rate dropped to normal and
she stopped fidgeting. It was so amazing that she responded to us, and
that we were able to do what a normal new parent of a newborn gets to
do, which is to soothe them. I can't tell you what an emotional event
that was for me.
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Re: XP: Past 72 hours and still going well for Adalyn!
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Glad things seem to be coasting along well! Thinking of you!
We'll miss you sweet Debbie Girl (4.21.12) and sweet Cindy Girl (8.9.12)
