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I just don't understand...

So I found out yesterday my son's father is having another baby. SERIOUSLY!!! This will be baby #3 with 3 diffrent women. He doesnt take care of the 2 he already as but he's gonna have another one. Maybe he will leave me alone..... Wishful thinking!!
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Re: I just don't understand...

  • This is my worst nightmare. Well at least one of them. I'm wife #2, and STBXH left me at 10 weeks pregnant. 2 weeks after he left me he started puting himself on dating websites and I heard from mutual friends that he was lying to these women, telling them that I was just an ex-gf or that I cheated on him and HE left me in March 2011...Total BS. Anyway, his 9 y/o that he has with wife #1 doesn't have much of a relationship with him either. He never makes time for him and only sees him 4 days out of the month, paying minimal CS. I'm just waiting for him to find wife #3, since he's incapable of being alone, or at least knock up someone else that he has to pay CS to. Urgh...These men.
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  • DDs father had two kids from a previous marriage when I met him. He had them at 15 and 16. DD came along when he was 22, and a few wars ago, he told me about baby #4. Four kids, three women. In his defense Baby Mama 3 lied about b/c. I was just stupid. 

    He didn't really have a relationship with DD until about 3 years ago. I know he regrets missing that time now.  

  • His father and I have been split for almost 2 years. He has an almost 12 year old from girlfriend #1 an almost 2 year old from me and now one on the way with a girl hes been with for a little over a month. Now i really  dont give a crap what he does but its like you barely see either of your kids and you dont pay CS so hey lets get another bimbo knocked up. I just dont want him disappearing for a few years and then trying to come back into my sons life and then get pissed when he wants nothing to do with you. If your gonna disappear disappear for good!!
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  • Oh my gosh!!! This is the kind of stuff you see on Lifetime movies. I'm kinda totally in the same boat girls. I'm (unfortuantly) still married to mine. He was in such a hurry to get divorced and be away from me and not ever have to be around me and *MY* baby (cuz you know, I knocked myself up) and is already refusing to support his baby and says he never wants to see him/her. Then he goes and gets back with his (disgusting)ex girlfriend. Shes ran around saying they are planning a wedding, and they are going to start trying for a baby blah blah blah. Hes already got a baby from before me and soon he will have a baby with me...... not exactly sure I would want to be a 3rd baby mamma to someone like him but its her call. Its so relieving to know there are other men out in the world.
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