Infertility

FET Failure

My first FET ended with BFFN. We are so so heartbroken and devastated. How does one move on after such a big failure? I was ok when Clomid failed, or the IUI failed, but when so much money and time goes into IVF/FET and it fails, it feels like such a piece of me is missing. :(
Diagnosed with PCOS, TTC since 11/2010,
Cycle #1(47 days) ~ Natural - BFN
Cycle #2 (36 days) ~ Clomid - BFN
Cycle #3 (46 days) ~ Clomid - BFN
Cycle #4 (42 days)~ Gonal-F and Ovidrel - BFN
Cycle #5 (46 days) ~ Gonal-F and Ovidrel - Cancelled cycle due to hyper-stimulation
Cycle #6 (31 days)~ Gonal-F and Ovidrel - Cancelled AGAIN due to hyper-stimulation :(
Cycle #7 (50 days) ~ IUI #1 (with letrolzole & ovidrel) - BFN
Cycle #8 (32 days) ~ BC pills - obviously BFN
Cycle #9 (20 days) ~ IVF #1 (10/2011): 23 eggs retrieved, 20 inseminated,16 fertilized! 0 transferred. All embryos frozen due to severe OHSS
Cycle #10 (44 days) ~ BC pills, ovaries given chance to rest
Cycle #11 ~ FET #1 on 1/20/2012, transferred two 3-day blastocysts, refroze 1 embryo (now left with 11 frozen) 2/2/12 Beta = less than 0.5 BFFN :(
FET #2 March 30, 2012 BFN
FET #3 April 2013, BFN
IVF #2 (08/23/13): 20 eggs retrieved, 16 inseminated,13 fertilized! 12 grew to 5 day blasts, biopsied then frozen
PGD of 12 blasts: 12 abnormal, 4 normal embryos
FET #4 October 16, 2013, transferred two 5-day blasts
10/24 HPT - BFP!!!!
10/25 BETA = 302
10/27 BETA = 972!!
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Re: FET Failure

  • I'm so sorry.  How do you move on?  Time.  And am I reading your siggy right that you still have some embies frozen?  You have hope in them, so hold on to that.  (((((hugs)))))
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    IVF #2: +HPT 2/6/12! ~ Boy/Girl Twins!!


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  • I'm so sorry.  (((hugs)))
    Me: 35 DH: 37 TTC since 4/2010
    DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
    IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
    1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
    FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
    FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
    7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
    EDD 2/22/2013
    PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
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  • Hugs. It is hard to keep going forward, but the alternative to deciding this is the end. Try to focus on the positive. You CAN make it through another FET. I know you can. 

  • I'm so sorry. 
    IVF #3 = Feb 2012
    beta#1 3/21 (14dp3dt)=413, beta#2 3/23 (16dp3dt)=785, u/s 4/11
    EDD 11/25/12
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  • I'm so sorry! ((BIG HUGS))
    Me: 33, Hypothalamic Amenorrhea, DOR (AMH .35), DH: 38, Borderline low morph
    5/09- Off BCP, 5/09-9/09- No period, 9/09-9/10- Lots of Tests & accupuncture
    10/10 and 11/10- 2 rounds of Menopur + TI= BFNS
    12/10-IUI #1 Menopur = BFN
    1/11- IUI #2 Menopur = BFP, 2/11 missed mc at 9 weeks, D&C
    5/11- Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum
    6/11- IUI #3 Menopur = BFP, 8/11 missed mc at 11 weeks, D&C
    1/12- Lap and Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum (again) & scar tissue
    2/12- Stint Removal, 3/12 repeat SHG and HSG- showed scar tissue blocking right tube
    4/12- Operative hysteroscopy (again), RE said he can now see right tube (yay!)
    5/12- Stint removal, 6/12 repeat SHG and HSG-both tubes are open!
    8/12- IUI #4 Bravelle = BFN
    9/12-IUI #5 Bravelle = BFN
    1/13- IVF #1, micro-flare protocol, 7R, 6F, 5dt of 2 AA embryos, 1 to freeze = BFP
    Beta #1: 176, Beta #2: 422, EDD 10/8/13- it's TWINS!
    *PAIF/SAIF always welcome*
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  • I'm so very sorry.
    TTC in 2009, Dx: Unexplained IF
    Three TI cycles (BFP...miscarriage), five IUI attempts and 2.5 IVF cycles later...BFP!!
    12dp5dt: 765; 15dp5dt: 1979; 17dp5dt: 3379...TWINS!!!!!
    Our perfect baby boys were born at 36w1d!! 








  • I'm so sorry!  It is so hard.  Take as much time as you need to deal with this. 
    TTC since Jan. 2010 DX Unexplained infertility
    3 IUI's w/Clomid & Ovidrel=all BFNs
    3 IVF (2 Fresh, 1 frozen) =BFN
    Jan 2012 New RE & Fresh Cycle =BFP!
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    TTC #2 October 2014
    Meet with RE March 2015
    2 Frozen & 1 Fresh IVF= BFNs
    September 2015 Frozen ET=BFP!


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